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How To Love A Virgo Woman (5 Effective Ways!)

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Smart and organized, you’re wondering how to love a Virgo woman. If you are afraid that you will be criticized and manipulated by her, what you know about your Virgo woman is wrong. However, if you want to get with a Virgo woman but don’t know how to love her, you have found the right article!

To love a Virgo woman, you need to make her feel appreciated by noticing how hardworking she is. Fulfill your promises by doing the things you tell her. Be her support system by being a shoulder to cry on. You also need to engage in intelligent conversations with her and offer emotional and financial security.

Sounds simple enough, but we’ve just scratched the surface…

Before we delve into the specific about your Virgo woman, what she likes and dislikes and how to love her… I wanted to mention a program that I’ve discovered. It’s the most comprehensive program for men to connect with a woman. As you probably know, men and women express their interest in the opposite sex differently…

This method isn’t specifically about Virgo women but is designed to help men win the heart of the woman of their desire, using female psychology and fractionation (I explain fractionation below)… Check out “the Shogun Method“. When women are interested in a man, they connect emotionally.

Therefore, if you want to her to feel loved by you, then you must create an emotional connection with her (that is, spark her interest and carnal desire) and the Shogun method helps you to do that quickly!

That said, I’ll also provide a link at the end of this article. Let’s first review her love language, her likes, and dislikes…

The Love Language Of A Virgo Woman

A Virgo woman is naturally very nurturing, and she can be very heartfelt and romantic to the right person. Once she is sure of you, she will do everything in her power to make you feel how much she loves you.

She will find these little ways to express this love to you the right way.  Sometimes, it may seem like it is over the top, but when she is comfortable and confident enough in what she feels towards you, then, she does not have a problem showing the entire world that she is committed to you.

Because of the overflowing love that a Virgo woman gives, sometimes it can be very heavy and overbearing to someone who cannot give it back. These people can receive this overflowing love that feels so right and good at the moment, but at the end of the day, a Virgo woman can be used in the wrong ways because of her helpful nature.

With this being said, know that your Virgo woman likes to be of service to everyone, and as you already have guessed, the love language of your Virgo woman is acts of service. If she is in love with someone, she is definitely going to give all of her ability to help you with your everyday routine.

She is someone you can run to when you need help with literally anything. And of course, you need to show love to her by acts of service too.

What A Virgo Woman Likes

If you still do not know this about your Virgo woman, she can be very picky and critical, but she is also very devoted. She has high standards. One thing that a Virgo woman likes is good hygiene and a polished appearance.

She is very observant and will definitely notice if you have not been taking care of yourself. She will notice if you are dressed inappropriately for an event. She will notice those dirty little fingernails. In short, she likes well-groomed people.

She likes receiving practical gifts from people that will make her life a whole lot easier. Again, her love language is an act of service, and she will definitely appreciate it if you can make her life a little better through a gift. So, what you can do is observe her routine and identify the things that will be of use to her.

She also liked being asked for advice. She is an honest and straightforward person, and so she expects someone to be the same.

She likes it when you ask for her opinions and different things and what she thinks is the best solution to your problem. You also need to be attentive when she is speaking and make her feel that her opinions are valued.

What A Virgo Woman Dislikes

The first thing that a Virgo woman dislikes is being lied to. She does not like it when there are hints of white lies in your statements. She thinks of this as a huge red flag. So, you need to be truthful at all times so you can avoid a Virgo woman hating you.

She also does not like vague communication and if things are not clearly explained to her. She values clear and straightforward communication, and if you like beating around the bush before you express what you really feel, then, stay away from a Virgo woman.

Your Virgo woman does not like her daily routine being interrupted. Before she even starts her day, she already has a big picture of what she will do. She knows how to go about her day and calculate the different possibilities that may hinder her from achieving them.

So, if you are one that does not allow him to focus on finishing the tasks she has set in a day, then she will despise you.

She also does not like it when people are rude to other people and pets. She is naturally in tune with nature and humanity and the last thing that she wants to do is destroy them.

Use fractionation to connect emotionally…

At this point, I want to talk about fractionation… What is fractionation you ask… Fractionation is like putting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster. It’s a sequence of repeated, intensifying cycles of emotional ups and downs… You give her an emotional high, then an emotional low, etc.

Women are emotional “creatures” and really connect with movies, activities, and men who satisfy their emotional needs. For her, the emotional ride that fractionation creates is absolutely addicting!

For instance, you can send one-sentence texts using fractionation, in one of these 2 formats:

  • express your approval of one of her bad qualities… or,
  • express disapproval of one of her good qualities…

For example, “I love how you can be so boring.” or “I’m disgusted by your good manners.”

Statements like this will stop her in her tracks and she’ll reply to your texts asking what you mean.

This is just a quick example… Click here to read more details about fractionation in the Shogun Method.

OK, let’s look at the ways to love her…

5 Ways To Love A Virgo Woman

Make her feel appreciated

Because of the things that a Virgo woman does for a lot of people, she can get easily burned out and will definitely use some appreciation from someone she really values. Remember that her love language is an act of service, and she will definitely do everything in her power to help the people she loves.

What you can do is say “thank you” to make her feel that you can see what she does for everyone. This should be done regularly though because she notices if you stop doing this, she may think that you do not appreciate her anymore.

Fulfill your promises

Nothing makes a Virgo woman hate someone more than breaking his or her promises. Let me remind you that a Virgo woman favors order and routine, and if you tell her that you are going to do something, she will expect that you will do it because she does whatever she promises to.

The thing about your Virgo woman is that if you make plans with her, she will mark her calendar to give her full attention to you that day. And if you ditch or ghost her, she will get pissed, and she will consider it as a red flag. So, you need to offer predictability to her because again, she will offer the same to you.

Be her support system

We can all agree that your Virgo woman is very independent and can do things without the help of other people. She does it so well too! So, what you can provide her is your support. You need to show her that you are ready to be her support system.

I mean it might have been hard for you to get with her in the first place. She’s picky for a lot of reasons, and her standards can be a little high in choosing her partner, and so, if she has chosen you, she trusts you.

You need to remind her that you are indeed someone she can trust. Because of how busy a Virgo woman is, she needs a partner who can be a shoulder to cry on and can take a load off of her.

However, if you are not ready to do this your whole life, then do not even think of pursuing her.

Engage in intelligent conversations

Being intelligent is one of the things that a Virgo woman is known for. She knows a lot of things and shallow topics may bore her. To keep her interested, you need to be engaging in intellectual conversations with her.

She loves to learn and teach, and so, she will definitely enjoy it the relationship with her partner is a teaching and learning ground.

However, if you do not consider yourself smart, that is also okay! You can start feeding your mind with facts and ideas now, so you can have something to teach your Virgo woman about the next time.

Offer security

There is a reason why your Virgo woman works so hard and that is to be financially secured. If you can offer her that, then you are definitely someone she is considering spending the rest of her life with.

Don’t get me wrong, you do not need to be rich. Your Virgo woman is last to be considered materialistic. She just wants someone who can feed her future family.

Security should also be offered emotionally to a Virgo woman. Again, she takes her time choosing the right partner for her, and if you do not offer emotional security, then she might say that she wasted her time for nothing. So, be emotional support and don’t be a pain in the buttocks.

More details about getting her emotionally connected to you…

OK. Now that we’ve covered the ways to love a Virgo woman… It’s time to get more in-depth (Military Grade) training to get your Virgo woman addicted to you emotionally. Derek Rake’s “Shogun Method” has specific techniques and strategies for you to win the heart of the woman of your desires.

Derek has studied and perfected fundamental psychology-based techniques that you can follow in an easy step-by-step method. These aren’t gimmicky “pickup lines” and fad tricks. He will show you how to quickly connect with a woman the way she is wired to connect with you, then click here to check out the fractionation method.

This is the most comprehensive program I’ve ever seen for men to succeed in any relationship. It helped men in the dating phase as well as men who’ve been married for many years.

5 ways to love a Virgo woman, final thoughts…

To love a Virgo woman:

  • Make her feel appreciated
  • Fulfill your promises
  • Be her support system
  • Engage in intelligent conversations
  • Offer security