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7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Virgo Woman

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If you have been eyeing a Virgo woman, it is most probably because of how smart she is. You just love how she talks about the things she is passionate about, and you just can’t get enough of her. If you are curious about the effective tips to flirt with her, you have found your treasure with this article!

To effectively flirt with a Virgo woman, you need to show her that you do what you say. Put effort into your look to let her know that you value and care for yourself. Show her that you are patient and talk about your passion. Be available to help her. You also need to be pet-friendly and plan future dates with her.

Sounds simple enough, but we’ve just scratched the surface…

Before we delve into the ways to flirt with a Virgo woman, I wanted to mention a program that I’ve discovered. It’s the most comprehensive program for men to connect with a woman. As you probably know, men and women express their interest in the opposite sex differently…

This method isn’t specifically about Virgo women but is designed to help men “land” the woman of their desire, using female psychology and fractionation (I explain fractionation below)… Check out “the Shogun Method“. When women are interested in a man, they connect emotionally.

Therefore, if you want to date a woman you must create an emotional connection with her (that sparks her interest and desire) and the Shogun method helps you to do that quickly!

That said, I’ll also provide a link at the end of this article. Let’s first check out your Virgo woman’s flirting style…

Understanding the Virgo Woman’s Flirting Style

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Virgo Woman

There are levels of flirting when a Virgo woman is flirting. She can be totally awkward when she flirts, but in time, she can be sensual and touchy-feely when she flirts. This is because she is a passive flirter, and it is almost like wind where you don’t know where it came from. You will never quite know if she is flirting or just being nice.

She is a little indirect with her flirting. She can be talking about you to you without even knowing. She can be describing yourself as a way of admiration. Sometimes, she can be a little code that is hard to crack, but you will figure her out if you are intellectual or smart enough. This is her way of making you realize that she is indeed flirting.

You see, being awkward is definitely part of her charm. However, she can also be a sensual flirter. When she gets to the point that she is already comfortable, she can be the type to be very touchy-feely. At first, she wants to know how you will react to her passive-aggressive flirting.

If you are weirded out, she is going to pull out very quickly. But if she sees that you are reacting in a positive way, she is going to start to be open about her feelings towards you. This is all after she passes that tension in flirting.

Your Virgo woman naturally wants to help out in every way possible, and so, when she is flirting, she is going to be offering help all the time. Even when she is not flirting, she likes to extend a helping hand to everyone in her circle. So, she is offering you help of any kind, let her help.

She also loves to talk! When flirting, she is going to be awkwardly talking too much about a lot of different topics. Sometimes, you can’t even understand what she’s saying because of how fast she’s talking. But as I said earlier, her awkwardness is part of her charm.

Use fractionation to connect emotionally…

At this point, I want to talk about fractionation… What is fractionation you ask… Fractionation is like putting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster. It’s a sequence of repeated, intensifying cycles of emotional ups and downs… You give her an emotional high, then an emotional low, etc. And, it takes your flirting to the next level!

Women are emotional “creatures” and really connect with movies, activities, and men who satisfy their emotional needs. For her, the emotional ride that fractionation creates is absolutely addicting!

For instance, you can send one-sentence texts using fractionation, in one of these 2 formats:

  • express your approval of one of her bad qualities… or,
  • express disapproval of one of her good qualities…

For example, “I love how you can be so boring.” or “I’m disgusted by your good manners.”

Statements like this will stop her in her tracks and she’ll reply to your texts asking what you mean.

This is just a quick example… Click here to read more details about fractionation in the Shogun Method.

OK, let’s look at effective ways to flirt with her…

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Virgo Woman

Do what you say

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Virgo Woman

To your Virgo woman, action speaks louder than words. If you have set a date to have dinner together, make sure that you are going to be there on time. It can also be better if you get to the venue earlier than the time you have agreed on.

This is a very small thing for a lot of people and even not necessary, especially if a person likes you already. However, for a Virgo, this is everything!

You need to make sure that you are doing whatever it is that you say. You can flirt by making her realize that you are indeed trustworthy and someone she can rely on. You are going to be gaining a lot of respect if you are dependable and someone to count on.

Put effort into your looks

If you still haven’t heard, your Virgo woman is very much into the smallest details of everything. She notices literally everything! And if you are going on a date, she is going to notice what you put to your outfit, your hair, or even your cologne.

If you have recently put an effort into your skincare routine, she is going to notice how your skin has been glowing. If you have changed your cologne, she is also going to notice.

This does not mean that your Virgo woman is very superficial though. She just wants to know how you value and take care of yourself. You need to be able to let her show that you really do know how to take care of yourself.

She likes that clean, hygienic-looking person who is put together and organized. Remember what we have talked about in the first tip. She only does not care about how you act; she also cares about how you present yourself.

Show your patience

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Virgo Woman

Your Virgo woman tends to be slow-moving when it comes to relationships. She is not the type to impulsively jump from one relationship to another. She usually likes to start a relationship by being friends first.

She does this because she likes to think about the details and how the relationship is going to go. Remember that she is ruled by Mercury, and so, there is a lot of mental energy here. She tends to be overthinking a lot of things.

To flirt, you need to let her realize that you are willing to be patient with her. She wants to get to know you and see through your actions, so it is important that you need to wait a little bit.

She is not going to be open and vulnerable to you right away, but she likes to be with someone who fits how she lives her life. So, let her know that you are willing to build this foundation before you get into a relationship.

Talk about your passion

If you still have not noticed, your Virgo woman is a very intelligent person. She loves to learn new things just because she is curious. She likes to analyze things because to her, a mental connection is very much important. She likes people who get her mentally stimulated.

So, what you can do is talk about the things that you are most passionate about. Find out the things you have a lot of knowledge of and get into a conversation with her about it. She is going to love that!

She likes to be able to pick your brain on these things. Basically, show her that you are smart and that you are absolutely passionate about these things.

Be of help

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Virgo Woman

We already know that a Virgo woman flirts by being helpful. You can also flirt by doing the same for her. You need to give extra thought to her more practical needs. Do not just give her chocolates and flowers to flirt with. You need to be able to be of service to her when she needs it.

She appreciates people who show help in their daily routine. You can do this to make her feel that you are thinking of her and that you care for her. You need to pay attention to her needs and do extra effort for her.

She wants someone she can have regular Friday night dates with her and someone he is comfortable with. She needs someone she can count on.

Be pet-friendly

If you already love animals, then you are good to go! There is no doubt that your Virgo woman loves pets and owns one or more pets and treats them as if they are her own children.

If you have been talking for a while, she must have been talking a lot about her pets. So, the least you can do is to listen. However, if you have pets, then talk about them all the time. She will genuinely be curious and caring about them!

Plan future dates

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Virgo Woman

Your Virgo woman has tendencies to be very workaholic. She likes to schedule things that she needs to accomplish. And so, it is only fitting that you flirt by planning on future dates with her.

You need to make her feel that you value her time and that you see how hardworking she is. When planning, it is also important that you give her the freedom to pick the venue, the date, and the time. As a Virgo, it comes naturally to her to plan things.

More details about getting her emotionally connected to you…

OK. Now that we’ve covered the effective ways to flirt with a Virgo woman… It’s time to get more in-depth (Military Grade) training to get your Virgo woman addicted to you emotionally. Derek Rake’s “Shogun Method” has specific techniques and strategies for you to date the woman of your desires.

Derek has studied and perfected fundamental psychology-based techniques that you can follow in an easy step-by-step method. These aren’t gimmicky “pickup lines” and fad tricks. If you are interested in quickly connecting with a woman the way she is wired to connect with you, then click here to check out the fractionation method.

This is the most comprehensive program I’ve ever seen for men to succeed with any relationship… it works if you are in the dating (& flirting) phase or if you are in a long-term relationship (or even married to) a woman for many years.

Effective tips to flirt with a Virgo woman, final thoughts…

The effective tips to flirt with a Virgo woman are:

  • Do what you say
  • Put effort into your looks
  • Show your patience
  • Talk about your passion
  • Be of help
  • Be pet-friendly
  • Plan future dates

Happy flirting!