The Aquarius man is a visionary. He lives a life of purpose and enjoys making a difference in the world either by contribution or simply being unique. He can be stubborn to a fault preferring to do his way or no way. He is not the best at expressing his emotions and can come across as eccentric.
When an Aquarius man is done with you, he moves forward with life. He is not the type to sulk after a separation. He is progressive and always looks toward a better future. In fact, getting them to be committed is already a miracle and to him, there is just more to life than being devoted to a single person.
If you are looking for more in-depth training to get your Aquarius man’s interest back no matter what situation you are facing, then you should also check out zodiac-based dating expert Anna Kovach’s book Aquarius Man Secrets.
Anna’s book is really insightful. I’d recommend that you check it out after you’ve read my article (I’ll link to her book at the end of this article for you)!
That said, let’s see what it looks like when an Aquarius man is in love…
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The Aquarius man in love
The Aquarius man prioritizes friendships over committed relationships. Even if he somehow finds himself deeply connected to someone else, he wouldn’t tie himself in it if he knows he would sacrifice his freedom.
He may be influenced by the air element but he makes a loyal lover. Don’t expect him to be sweet. The Aquarius man does love, but he loves in a way that is selective. He wants to carry the burden of his loved ones but not allow it to cloud his judgment. He is the rebel of the zodiac wheel and he might be unconventional in ways on how he can express his love to you.
When an Aquarius man likes you, he will talk to you about anything and everything. He will be open to talking about what makes you tick. He will want to know your perspective about issues. The Aquarius man is detached but when he loves someone, he spends time with her.
Maybe, through a miracle, that he becomes affectionate with you over time. The Aquarius man will slowly be comfortable showing his inner child. He will not be hesitant to share what he truly thinks. He starts to introduce you to his exclusive circle and allows you to be part of his family.
It is common for the Aquarius man to love through service and gift-giving. He won’t really expect anything in return but he will try to spoil you with things or do your errands for you. The Aquarius man loves his freedom, he is the type not to prioritize a single relationship but he is capable of love, it just takes someone extra special to convince him.
The Aquarius man is one of the most independent signs compared to the other members of the zodiac wheel. He is self-reliant, a leader, and wants a partner that can be independent like him. He is looking for someone who is not living in a world of fairytales that there is more than life than a love story.
What are your chances with your Aquarius man?
Before we review the signs your Aquarius man has moved on or if he’s done with you, it’s probably a good idea for you to check how compatible you are with him!
Anna Kovach created a fun quiz to determine your compatibility with your Aquarius man. There are 9 easy questions! Start Anna’s Quiz!
How to tell when an Aquarius man has moved on
He limits his conversations with you
When an Aquarius man is losing interest, he stops speaking to you on a deeper level. He limits conversation to something superficial. He won’t act on it unless he will benefit from it. The Aquarius man will only communicate if it’s going to be transactional. He may be indirectly telling you to give him privacy and space.
It would be stressful for him if you try to chase him right now. Aquarius men like to be distracted, which could mean they will focus more on their hobbies. He is also a workaholic; he’s not going to feel sorry just because you called him out.
He feels remorseful about all the things and effort he gave to you
Aquarius men are purposeful. When he cares for someone, he doesn’t mind making an effort to make their significant other’s life better. He is the water bearer, a symbol of compassion. The Aquarius man will carry your burden if he could.
When he no longer wants to be part of your life, he may feel resentful of the fact that he did so many things for you. He feels like he wasted time and energy that he could’ve used for something else.
He starts to separate you from his friends
When an Aquarius man doesn’t like you anymore, he will start segregating you from his group of friends. He will make up excuses not to spend time with you. The Aquarius man takes commitment seriously because he wouldn’t even agree to be tied up in the first place unless he meant it.
The Aquarius man can be expressive when he trusts someone enough, but after a separation and broken trust, he will become secretive. He will choose to spend time with people that he knows he belongs to. Basically, leaving you out of his personal life. You are like a bank teller or the cashier he sees at the checkout, just another NPC (non-playable character) that he passes by.
There is a sensitive side to the Aquarius man that he shows only to a few. He is private. He may only have deep conversations that have something to do with his personal life to an exclusive circle. If he still likes you, he will have the comfort of being able to reveal himself to you.
He ghosts you
For an Aquarius man, there are a lot of interesting things to do, when he doesn’t make time for you, it could be a sign that he is drifting away. He may even decline from having small talk with you. Even if you’re together, he would focus on other people.
It feels like you’re seeing someone you used to know. He’s not interested in what you have to say, there seems to be nothing to talk about. One day, it won’t be surprising if he stops meeting you at all and he may not reply at all in any of your messages. If it was urgent, he will only reply with the information needed.
He stops looking out for you
Your Aquarius man may have been reliable when you needed help. He was willing to sacrifice his time to make your life better. Now that both of you have called it quits, he will stop doing these little things for you.
If somehow, he is kind of required to do so, he will do it with a bitter heart. You will see that it doesn’t bring him happiness but misery. If you asked him for help, he will respond with he has a meeting or that he has a trip.
Remember, Aquarius is the water bearer, he is about compassion and self-sacrifice. He understands that kindness goes a long way. It is what the world needs most. If he can feel that collectively, what more for a person he wants to share his life with.
If he is no longer responsive or able to reciprocate your care, then you have to accept the end of that relationship, your time with the Aquarius man has run its course. It’s not impossible to become friends with him again, it’s just that don’t expect he will be able to accept you again romantically.
He stops exploring new experiences with you
One can have an exciting experience with the Aquarius man. He is adventurous and most likely involved in many social circles. He can introduce a network of people to you. He may get you to join activities like volunteering and you will have a fresh perspective of what a community is.
When you are with an Aquarius man, you learn about the value of personal freedom. You will understand what being authentic to yourself means. It is about fearlessness and being brave enough to call a system that no longer works.
For the Aquarius man, just because something has been existing for decades doesn’t mean it will always be the right way. He is the innovator and his ruling planet Uranus, is the great awakener. Something about you will definitely change.
Ironically, since this is about the Aquarius man and on how to know when he’s done with you, then he will also change suddenly. He will wake up and realize that the adventure is over with you, and it is time to look at the future. He moves forward without regrets.
He makes you feel like an unnecessary burden
When the Aquarius man loves you, he takes care of you. He wants you to be able to rely on him but not to the point that you are too emotional and clingy. He wants to make an independent lady out of you. For the Aquarius man, he needs his own time to shine and pursue his own dreams.
Maybe when he loved you, he included you in those plans. Whatever you did together was exciting and that he made you feel that your life had a purpose. Now that you have broken up, he will seem like a drag, unmotivated of staying with you.
He may tell you directly that he doesn’t want to deal with you anymore. It’s better this way, for some Aquarius men that try to stay, he might be rebellious by meeting other girls in secret.
Get more insights into your Aquarius man…
As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, check out Anna Kovach’s book, Aquarius Man Secrets, for more in-depth training for you to deal with your Aquarius man no matter what situation you find yourself in. Anna’s methods can turn things around for you. In no time, you will have him desiring you and thinking about you all the time.
If you hadn’t already tried her quiz, then do it now… Take Anna’s Relationship Compatibility Quiz for specific insights into your relationship compatibility.
Is your Aquarius man done with you, final thoughts…
When an Aquarius man is done with you, he looks forward to the future. He knows that all relationships have an end and your time with him has expired. He is the most non-committal sign in the zodiac wheel and if you’re lucky, he may be open to remaining friends.
Staying friends with him will not always mean it’s an advantage. He may have cared a lot about you that’s why he’s still in your life but once he’s analyzed that he doesn’t see the relationship working. He loves his independence and it takes something special to get him to commit.
When he ghosts you, it may mean he doesn’t want to come across your paths again. He may make up excuses not to meet you and if there is a situation where he has no choice but sees you, he will not bother taking conversations deeply and you will slowly be removed from his circle of friends.
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