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How To Love A Gemini Woman (5 Effective Ways!)

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This fun, loving, and smart woman is someone you need to keep up with when it comes to stories to tell and things to do. The last thing you want to do is bore her to death. Here’s how you can love a Gemini woman to keep her interested.

To love a Gemini woman, you need to learn how to let her be free. Do not be too clingy and let her enjoy her alone time. Be appreciative and say “thank you” whenever you can. Be silly and crack jokes all the time. Be witty and knowledgeable about the things that interest you. Most importantly, do not bore her.

If you are not the serious type all the time and you’re naturally funny, you are good to go!

This might sound simple enough, but we’ve just scratched the surface…

Before we delve into the specific about your Gemini woman, what she likes and dislikes and how to love her… I wanted to mention a program that I’ve discovered. It’s the most comprehensive program for men to connect with a woman. As you probably know, men and women express their interest in the opposite sex differently…

This method isn’t specifically about Gemini women but is designed to help men win the heart of the woman of their desire, using female psychology and fractionation (I explain fractionation below)… Check out “the Shogun Method“. When women are interested in a man, they connect emotionally.

Therefore, if you want her to feel loved by you, then you must create an emotional connection with her (that is, spark her interest and carnal desire) and the Shogun method helps you to do that quickly!

That said, I’ll also provide a link at the end of this article. Let’s first review her love language, her likes, and dislikes…

The Love Language Of A Gemini Woman

It’s pretty obvious what the love language of your Gemini woman is because of how chatty she is. Of course, it’s words of affirmation. One thing that turns her on is intellectual conversations. In order to make her feel loved, you need to say it through words. You must know how to clearly express your emotions.

Your Gemini woman is naturally charming and chatty, so there is no doubt that people love her. There is no question why people love her too! She can literally enter a room and make friends.

This is just one piece of evidence that words of affirmation are her love language. You need to be clear of your intention from the start. She does not like to read between the lines and will definitely appreciate it if you express your feelings through words.

Aside from telling her how you feel, you need to affirm her opinions. Let her know that you are listening and are interested in what she is talking about. Be all ears when she is expanding her ideas and engaging.

Make her feel that you have ideas that you want to share as well. Wait until gossips become inside jokes and have a heavy gossip session.

What A Gemini Woman Likes

If you still did not notice this about your Gemini woman, she is fun, curious, and unique, and she is not afraid of change. In fact, she thrives in change and adapts easily to it. You should know that your Gemini woman’s mind is always active.

She likes it when she is being intellectually stimulated. She is the type to google random things because to her, life is. Never-ending opportunity to learn. To her, there are no boundaries when it comes to learning.

She likes a sense of mystery and knowing a partner in the back of her head is her nightmare. Normally, girls would like to get to know every piece of their partner, but a Gemini woman does not like doing that. She likes to be constantly surprised.

Do not reveal everything about you just yet because she will feel overwhelmed. Reveal yourself slowly and surely.

She also likes it when her partner talks so much. She also talks too much, so she needs that energy to be reciprocated. Your Gemini woman processes things through conversations, and so she expects her lover to be the same. And if you do, she will think fondly of you.

What A Gemini Woman Dislikes

One thing that you need to know about your Gemini woman is that she is not consistent.  She does not like it when people expect her to be. She wants to feel free to make her own decisions and think of things that she wants to think through.

She does not like being suffocated, so, what you need to do is embrace this side of her. It’s not that she’s irresponsible. She is just carefree.

She does not like it when she is having poor conversations with people. If she feels like she is talking to a wall, she will definitely be turned off. She is someone who appreciates the art of communication, and so if someone cannot keep up with her, she will get bored.

Again, she is someone who is fun and free. She does not like when someone does not get her humor. She is naturally funny, and she is going to want to let you know that. If you want to know how to properly love her right, you should understand her humor more than you understand yours. You should learn how to find her jokes funny.

Use fractionation to connect emotionally…

At this point, I want to talk about fractionation… What is fractionation you ask… Fractionation is like putting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster. It’s a sequence of repeated, intensifying cycles of emotional ups and downs… You give her an emotional high, then an emotional low, etc.

Women are emotional “creatures” and really connect with movies, activities, and men who satisfy their emotional needs. For her, the emotional ride that fractionation creates is absolutely addicting!

For instance, you can send one-sentence texts using fractionation, in one of these 2 formats:

  • express your approval of one of her bad qualities… or,
  • express disapproval of one of her good qualities…

For example, “I love how you can be so boring.” or “I’m disgusted by your good manners.”

Statements like this will stop her in her tracks and she’ll reply to your texts asking what you mean.

This is just a quick example… Click here to read more details about fractionation in the Shogun Method.

OK, let’s look at the ways to love her…

5 Ways To Love A Gemini Woman

Let her be free

Your Gemini woman values her freedom as much as you value something in your life. As much as she loves interacting with other people, she also loves being alone. When you are dating a Gemini woman, you need to learn how to distance yourself from your Gemini woman, especially when she needs it.

Some of the reasons that she wants to be alone is she needs time to think. Even with the bubbly personality of a Gemini woman, she can also get a little sad every now and then. She can be dealing with a lot of things. She can also be reading a certain topic that she discovered and wants all the time in the world to focus on that.

Be appreciative

I mean this goes to all the signs in the zodiac, but this is most especially applied to a Gemini woman. When you are dating one, you need to show her that you appreciate her all the time. Show her that you are grateful that she is in your life. Say “thank you” when she does something for you.

When a Gemini woman is in love, she will do things out of her way to help you when you need it. Do not forget to show gratitude and of course, it must come out of your mouth because again, her love language is words of affirmation. Remind her that you love her all the time.

Crack jokes

As I have said earlier, your Gemini woman is silly and fun. She is the type to laugh at all of your jokes. She adored humor and could not get enough of jokes! Be authentic and don’t be afraid to laugh a situation out.

If you have been fighting, evaluate the situation and crack a joke or two. Her mood will definitely change. It does not have to be at a “stand-up comedian” level. It can be as simple as a fart joke. That would be enough.

Be witty and well-spoken

Even if you are not any of these two, being knowledgeable in a certain topic that interests you is enough to make a Gemini woman happy and on her feet for you.

Let me remind you that your Gemini woman is a smart one, and you need to figure out a way to keep up if you can’t. After all, everything can be learned when you put your mind to it.

Showing her how smart and passionate you are with the things that interest you will absolutely make her want to stay with you forever. If you think you are not knowledgeable enough, read a book or watch a documentary – anything that will add to your body of knowledge.

Do not bore her

The last thing you want to do with a Gemini woman is bore her. Again, you always need to equip yourself with things to do and stories to tell. This is a great time to reevaluate yourself and get to know yourself again.

What books do you read? What’s your stand on Politics? Do you like living in this country? Just little things like that. You need to be someone who can entertain her forever.

More details about getting her emotionally connected to you…

OK. Now that we’ve covered the ways to love a Gemini woman… It’s time to get more in-depth (Military Grade) training to get your Gemini woman addicted to you emotionally. Derek Rake’s “Shogun Method” has specific techniques and strategies for you to win the heart of the woman of your desires.

Derek has studied and perfected fundamental psychology-based techniques that you can follow in an easy step-by-step method. These aren’t gimmicky “pickup lines” and fad tricks. He will show you how to quickly connect with a woman the way she is wired to connect with you, then click here to check out the fractionation method.

This is the most comprehensive program I’ve ever seen for men to succeed in any relationship. It helped men in the dating phase as well as men who’ve been married for many years.

5 ways to love a Gemini woman, final thoughts…

To love a Gemini woman:

  • Let her be free
  • Be appreciative
  • Crack jokes
  • Be witty and well-spoken
  • Do not bore her