Many people know their Sun sign but have been told that romantic compatibility in astrology is more complex than Sun signs. Another important piece of information contained in your astrological chart is your Venus sign, because Venus rules your values and your approach to love.
If the planet Venus was located in the sign of Cancer on the day of your birth, then who are you compatible with?
If you have Venus in Cancer, your best compatibility matches are partners who have Venus in Taurus or Venus in Virgo. Looking at the characteristics of the sign of Cancer reveals additional possibilities.
Before we delve into Venus in Cancer compatibility I recommend that you pull out your natal chart, or you can use this free tool to generate it!
Table of Contents
- 1 Cancer Basics
- 2 Venus Basics
- 3 Best Match: Venus in Cancer with partner’s Venus in Taurus or Virgo
- 4 Second Best Match: Venus in Cancer with partner’s Venus in water signs
- 5 Third Best Match: Venus in Cancer with partner’s Venus in other Cardinal signs
- 6 All The Rest
- 7 Free Online Tarot Reading
- 8 Related Articles
- 9 Venus and All the Zodiac Signs
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Remember that each Zodiac sign is associated with a season, a mode (is it in the beginning, middle, or end of a season?), and an element. Each Zodiac sign is also ruled by at least one planet or luminary.
- Cancer Season: Summer
- Cancer Mode: Cardinal (first sign in its season)
- Cancer Element: Water
- Cancer Ruler: The Moon
Venus stays within two signs of the Sun in terms of relative position to Earth. That means people who have Venus in Cancer can have the Sun in only the following signs: Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, or Virgo.
Best Match: Venus in Cancer with partner’s Venus in Taurus or Virgo
Taurus and Virgo are the earth signs closest to water sign Cancer. The four elements – fire, earth, air, and water – typically break down into two groups of two: fire and air, and earth and water. Older astrology texts often refer to fire and air signs as masculine and water and earth signs as feminine.
In today’s world where people of all genders are able to express a broader variety of roles and traits, perhaps a better way to understand the difference between the two groups of signs is to look at their focus.
Water and earth signs tend to be interested in security and in maintaining the structure that exists. This can include the domestic stay-at-home parent, but it can also include the sort of person who looks for a job that is stable and guaranteed.
No matter what happens in the world, industries like education, healthcare, food, and banking aren’t going anywhere. Those lines of work are therefore full of earth and water sign people of all genders.
Fire and air signs are interested in innovating and exploring. Even if they are found in stable industries, they find the wilder parts of those industries. While an earth or water sign person might be happy with a financial job that involves managing conservative investments for retired people, a fire or air sign person might get curious about the riskier side of the financial industry like options trading.
Similarly, the fire or air sign worker in the healthcare industry might gravitate toward experimental therapies. As in the theory underlying Chinese medicine, there’s Yang within the Yin.
The theory of Yin and Yang, as described by the Traditional Chinese Medicine World Foundation, works well for understanding the difference between the fire and air signs and the earth and water signs. Yang is the outwardly focused energy of fire and air signs, and Yin is the inwardly focused energy of earth and water signs.
What a person with Venus in Cancer would share with a partner who has Venus in Taurus or Virgo is an interest in the tried and true. They focus on different sides of the tried and true. The Venus in Cancer person on their own may be so focused on emotional security that they would tolerate financial insecurity or difficult physical surroundings in order to hold on to a relationship.
Fortunately for them, a partner with Venus in Taurus or Venus in Virgo will not let that happen. The partner with Venus in Taurus or Venus in Virgo would be more likely to go in the other direction, being more willing to tolerate lack of emotional fulfillment in exchange for satisfying physical surroundings.
A relationship between a Venus in Cancer person and a Venus in Taurus or Venus in Virgo partner would therefore have the best of both worlds. The Venus in Taurus or Venus in Virgo partner would ground the Venus in Cancer person, making it less likely for the Venus in Cancer person to get lost in emotional extremes.
Venus in Taurus is particularly romantic, as Taurus is one of the signs that Venus rules. Venus in Virgo has a more parsimonious reputation, but Venus in Cancer would feel cared for by Venus in Virgo’s attention to detail.
Second Best Match: Venus in Cancer with partner’s Venus in water signs
Venus in Cancer can find a common desire for emotional security with partners who have Venus in Cancer or in the other two water signs, Scorpio and Pisces. This desire for emotional security is so strong that it can keep together an otherwise bad relationship.
Breakups are of course a huge threat to emotional security, and emotional security is so important to the water signs that they will tolerate just about anything to avoid a breakup.
Is this a good thing or a bad thing? It’s a thing that they agree on. When you come together in a relationship with another consenting adult, you don’t have to get the whole world to agree to whatever your crazy is – you just have to get one other person to agree to it.
People with Venus in any of the water signs are open to using emotional manipulation to get their way. If two people who are like that come together, it may not be pleasant for them, but it could be absolutely wonderful for everyone else they know. When an emotional manipulator finds out what it feels like to be on the receiving end of their own approach, they might finally think about toning it down.
Alternately, a couple where both have Venus in water signs could band together so tightly that they would be a formidable force for others to contend with – the two of them against the world!
Two Venus in Cancer people together would be very sweet and domestic. Venus in Scorpio would balance Venus in Cancer’s sweetness with an emphasis on the darker side of life, though Venus in Cancer would ultimately be grateful for Venus in Scorpio’s guidance there.
While Venus in Cancer can become insular, narrowly focused on their own needs and those of their close family, a Venus in Pisces partner could encourage Venus in Cancer to broaden their outlook and extend compassion to a broader circle.
Third Best Match: Venus in Cancer with partner’s Venus in other Cardinal signs
All four of the cardinal signs mark the beginning of seasons. Fire sign Aries begins spring, water sign Cancer begins summer, air sign Libra begins fall, and earth sign Capricorn begins winter. Venus in any of these signs tends to express its element intensely.
Capricorn is Cancer’s opposite. Like all pairs of opposite signs, Cancer and Capricorn are dealing with similar issues. In their case, the common ground has to do with maintaining structures of society.
Capricorn represents the harsh exterior of those structures, while Cancer represents the nurturing component that makes those structures tolerable. As a couple, Venus in Cancer and Venus in Capricorn will be very traditional. They may, however, tangle over when to bend the rules if needed.
Venus in Aries can be impulsive and abrasive, which would trigger Venus in Cancer’s sensitivity easily. Meanwhile, conflict-hating Venus in Libra is more aware of this sensitivity in Venus in Cancer and tiptoes around it to avoid setting it off. Venus in Libra may actually succeed in this regard, but at what cost to the relationship?
All The Rest
The signs that have not been covered yet are Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius. Of these, Gemini and Aquarius are air signs, and Leo and Sagittarius are fire signs.
Gemini and Leo are the signs on either side of Cancer. As noted previously, Venus can be no more than two signs apart from the Sun. There are therefore many Venus in Cancer people with the Sun in Gemini or Leo. There are also many people with Venus in Gemini or Leo who have the Sun in Cancer. If at least one of these situations applies to a couple where one has Venus in Cancer and the other has Venus in Gemini or Leo, incompatibility is not a huge concern.
The hardest matches for Venus in Cancer are Venus in Sagittarius and Venus in Aquarius. Venus in Aquarius is very intellectual and may have trouble meeting Venus in Cancer’s emotional needs. Venus in Sagittarius is less abstract than Venus in Aquarius, but Venus in Sagittarius’s tendency toward blunt honesty can be too much for Venus in Cancer’s sensitive nature.
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