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How To Text An Aquarius Woman

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If you’re trying to form a relationship with an Aquarius lady, you need to know how to text with this mysterious and unconventional zodiac sign.

When you text an Aquarius woman, make an effort to send messages that are intriguing and unique. She doesn’t like to make small talk over messages and she won’t respond to a boring text. Keep your messages entertaining and undemanding, don’t be needy and don’t expect her to respond right away.

How to Flirt With an Aquarius Woman Over Text

Communicating with an Aquarius lady over text messages can be confusing because her zodiac sign is quite complicated and non-traditional.

Her personality is full of contradictions, making it tough to determine whether the things you text her will drive her crazy or make her smile.

Her contrary nature is illustrated by her sign’s element and symbol. Each zodiac sign has a symbol that encapsulates the distinctive characteristics of that sign, and every zodiac sign belongs to one of four natural elements: air, fire, earth, or water.

Because the symbol for Aquarius is the water bearer, you might guess that Aquarius belongs to the water element. But, like most things surrounding this quirky sign, everything is not as it seems.

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Aquarius is actually an air sign, and air signs are known for being intellectual, communicative, and curious. Air signs are the social butterflies of the zodiac, but Aquarius is perhaps the least outgoing of the air signs.

If you want to flirt with an Aquarius over texts, you need to get to know her. She has a deeply layered personality, and the more layers you peel back, the more surprises you will discover beneath the surface.

An Aquarius lady has a unique way of thinking and she’s not afraid to be different. She is naturally attracted to underdogs and outsiders, and she surrounds herself with independent thinkers and people with unusual lifestyles.

You should text her questions that will help you figure out who she is, but you must avoid sending her anything cliche or boring. An Aquarius woman will roll her eyes and ignore your text if you text her something as mundane as, “What’s up?” or, “How is work going?”

You need to send her a question that piques her interest enough to make her want to respond, like, “What’s the best book you’ve ever read?” or, “Where did you go on your last vacation?”

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Come up with a question that grabs her attention and encourages her to open up so you can get to know her better.

How to Seduce an Aquarius Woman Over Text

When you’re trying to seduce an Aquarius woman over text, it’s important to remember that she loathes cheesy cliches. Your typical pick-up lines or suggestive selfies won’t inspire an intelligent and quirky Aquarius lady to text you back or hook up with you.

You need to titillate, but not intimidate, her by texting her something she’s never seen before. An Aquarius lady loves a guy who can be both sexy and silly, so don’t shy away from this combination in your messages.

Lots of guys send shirtless selfies or snaps of them working out at the gym when they want to impress a girl, but an Aquarius lady will only yawn at these tired antics. 

You have to do something more unexpected to impress her, like taking a nude photo of yourself in a goofy pose or covering your privates with funny objects. The more creative and clever you get with your photos, the more likely your seduction will be successful.

While an Aquarius lady strives to be honest and straightforward, she may struggle to communicate her thoughts and feelings because her mind works so differently from most people’s. You should never be subtle in your texts to an Aquarius woman. You need to make it abundantly clear that you want to hook up with her, otherwise, she might not take the hint.

You don’t need to wait until night to send her a sexy text, either. You should keep her on her toes by messaging her at unexpected times. Even if it’s early in the morning and you haven’t talked in a while, you can still send her a seductive message if you’re in the mood.

No topics are off-limits when it comes to an Aquarius woman’s sexuality. She has lots of wild fantasies, and no idea is too taboo for her. She is the ideal person to text about your craziest sex dreams and your darkest desires because she won’t judge you.

Open up to her over texts about your fetishes or the most bizarre thing you’re dying to try in bed. With an Aquarius woman, you don’t have to worry that your fantasies will scare her off. Instead, she won’t be able to stop thinking about you when her head hits the pillow at night.

Things to Text an Aquarius Woman

If you want your Aquarius woman to text you back, there are a few things you must know about this eccentric and independent zodiac sign.

Regardless of how close you are, you have to avoid texting an Aquarius woman too often. She values her freedom over nearly everything else, and if she feels smothered by your frequent texts, she will take some breathing room by ignoring you.

An Aquarius lady doesn’t care for “check-in” texts and she probably won’t respond to them. Unless your text is urgent or contains a direct question, she won’t reply just to make small talk.

But when something interesting or hilarious makes you think of your Aquarius lady, you should send her a message or a picture to tell her about it. Even if you haven’t texted each other in a while, your Aquarius woman will appreciate the laugh and will probably respond to you.

Each zodiac sign rules a “house” of the zodiac that shows that sign’s values and strengths. Aquarius rules the eleventh house, which is the house of technology, social awareness, and humanitarianism.

This means that it’s always safe to message an Aquarius about charitable or humanitarian topics. Ask her if she knows of any non-profits that are seeking volunteers, or invite her to join you for a day of walking dogs at the local animal shelter together.

Why Didn’t an Aquarius Woman Text Back?

Some zodiac signs always text back right away, while others take hours or days to reply to messages. Aquarius women are fickle, so they fit into both categories simultaneously.

An Aquarius woman might text you back and forth for hours one day, only to ignore your messages the next. There are a million possible reasons why she’s ignoring you, and unless she feels like explaining herself, you may never know why she’s not texting you back.

An Aquarius woman’s reasons for not replying are as complicated and mysterious and as she is. For one, she likes to test her self-control and is easily addicted to technology, so she could be taking a self-imposed break from her phone and social media.

She might think that you’re being too needy and texting her too often, so she takes back some independence and control by neglecting you for a little while.

Her sign’s planet tells us about her texting style, too. Each zodiac sign has a guiding planet that reveals a characteristic of that sign. Aquarius is ruled by planet Uranus, and in Greek mythology, Uranus is the god of the heavens and the sky.

Having Uranus as a ruling planet shows us that Aquarius women are dreamers who often have their heads in the clouds. An Aquarius woman might not text back because she’s too distracted by something else and simply isn’t paying attention.

Don’t assume that your Aquarius lady is mad at you if she’s not answering your texts. If you did something to hurt or upset her, an Aquarius woman is unlikely to suffer in silence. She would rather confront you about the issue directly than be passive-aggressive and give you the silent treatment.


If you are trying to win an Aquarius woman’s heart, you need to learn how to text this unconventional and free-spirited zodiac sign.

Make an effort to only send your Aquarius lady unique and entertaining messages. Avoid texting her just to make small talk or ask how she’s doing. Accept that sometimes she will text you back and forth all day, while other times she will take days to respond.

Keep her guessing and laughing with your texts, and she will always reply to you eventually.

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