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7 Ways An Aries Man Tests You? (And, What To Do!)

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Are you wondering if your Aries man really cares or are you looking for an assurance that he’s serious? Do you find yourself asking why he’s acting a certain way? If so, read on to find out if your Aries man has been testing you.

An Aries Man will test you in several ways. He will bug you and make you angry. He will test your independence and self-care. He will check your loyalty (exclusivity) to him and your admiration and support of him. He will check if you trust him and test how easily you give up on things.

If you are looking for more in-depth training on how to really connect with your Aries man and pass all his tests, then I’d suggest Anna Kovach’s book, Aries Man Secrets

Anna is a zodiac-based dating expert who has been really successful in helping her clients date Aries men. Click the link above to get more details, (but not until you’ve finished reading through the details here)!

Ok, before we get into the different ways an Aries man tests you, let’s first review his characteristics…

Profile of an Aries Man

Aries is the first sign in the zodiac and is the go-getter, the initiator. This sign is associated with leadership and courage, often branded as a fighter. Aries may be stereotyped as bossy, having Mars as their ruler, they command action and will not be afraid to push others and take charge.

Personalities that have a lot of Aries placements may be frank in communication and do not like to waste time.

An Aries Man is an embodiment of masculine raw energy. He is competitive and likes to show off. He may even be a bit childish at times as many refer to Aries as the baby of the Zodiac. We can say that Aries likes to spoil themselves and might even be misinterpreted as selfish.

They are quite independent and stubborn. They don’t actually need a partner if they chose to but if they do fall in love, he will not hesitate to let her know.

He can put quite a show to impress a woman. They are competitive and it will show in trying to win you over. He is someone who acts based on what he feels before he realizes the consequences. Since it’s easy for them to fall in love, they can easily get bored too. This sign moves on quite quickly.

The Aries Man can pursue you with passion but once that flame has died, you may just be better off to say, better luck next lifetime. It will be hard to convince him.

The only way that he would stay might have been the attachment and experiences you have together but once he loses interest, it will just never be the same.

What are your chances with your Aries man?

Before I we review a bunch of ways that you can get your Aries man back, you might want to check how compatible you are with him!

Anna Kovach created a fun quiz to determine your compatibility with your Aries man. There are 9 easy questions! Click here to start your Aries compatibility quiz!

7 Ways an Aries man will test you

He will make you angry on purpose

How Does An Aries Man Test You?

When an Aries Man likes you expect a lot of teasing. They do love to make you angry. Most Aries will tell you, it’s almost their love language. Some Aries might say they find wrestling shows to be relaxing. As the youngest of the zodiac, expect they will throw in mind games. He might say he saw a beautiful woman with a nice body just to check your reaction. He gets high on validation when he sees you get jealous.

He will test your independence

He will also check your independence. Since he is independent, he wants you to be the same. He wants his space. He wants to have a loyal partner that can handle the realities of life. As he sees himself as an embodiment of a warrior, he wants a woman that is ready to fight too.

This also means he could make fights with you even for no reason to see if you can be firm with yourself and stand your own ground.

He will test how easily you give up on things

These men dislike women that easily give up. Even if you find an Aries Man that is willing to be a knight in shining armor, it might affect how they see you or respect you.

An Aries man’s, weakness is something they would rather avoid because of this, he can also hide his true feelings. Better to be cautious as if he does lie, he can lie with confidence.

He doesn’t like being told what to do

How Does An Aries Man Test You?

Aries Men don’t like to be controlled. So, if you are trying to change him, he might question your trust. No, he does not think he needs to be fixed. If you expect him to always update you, then you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.

It’s not their habit to let you know what they’re doing or where they’re at. You may want to manage your expectation that sometimes they can’t help flirt with others, not because they intend to betray you, but because they are competitive and want to be seen as prized.

He takes note of how you admire him

An Aries man likes to be respected by his partner. This is especially important to an Aries man. He wants his woman to act like she won the lottery and that’s she’s lucky to have him.

Aries men easily get bored, if he feels you are not adding value to his life, it’s really not hard for them to begin again.

They want a woman that takes care of herself

Since they are easily bored, they appreciate a woman that is open to doing anything with him. Yes, that includes his fantasies. They don’t like a woman that limits what they can do. The cliché, falling in love, at first sight, applies to them.

They want the best they can get. So, it’s good to invest in self-care, to take care of your looks, but don’t do it to please him, do it for you.

He checks if you are exclusive

How Does An Aries Man Test You?

He might as well live a playboy life if you are going to date multiple guys. Remember, this sign is independent, they won’t die if they don’t get married. It is not the end of the world for them.

When an Aries man dates to settle, he wants to make sure he will spend his life on a woman that he feels like no one else has. He wants to have a woman that is different from the rest. Show your loyalty, show what he will be missing if you suddenly walk away.

Get more details about your Aries man!

As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, Anna Kovach’s book, Aries Men Secrets, offers some really good insights for women dating an Aries man.  Now that you know all the tests an Aries man will throw at you, use some of Anna’s methods to pass them and deepen your relationship with your Aries man.

If you haven’t already, take Anna’s quiz to see how compatible you are with an Aries man! Click here to take Anna’s relationship quiz.

When an Aries man tests you, takeaways…

Overall, an Aries Man wants a woman who is like him. Someone who is independent can live without a partner, can accept that he is busy. Most Aries men prefer that you don’t rely on him emotionally or even domestically. He wants to see a woman that puts herself first. As a competitive sign, if he truly wants to pursue you, he will be the one to make the way.

One of the good reasons that you should date an Aries Man is their honesty. Most Aries men would rather end something upfront than hide things from you. They are also quite fixed in what they want that sometimes they do not care if it hurts.

It might sting, but that saved you time, right? What they mostly want is someone to come home to. A supportive figure in his life but allows him to live his life on his terms.

An Aries Man dislikes it when there are mixed signals. Again, despite wasting time and if things are not going right, they will not be shy to let you know.