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Aries Man In Bed, 7 Steamy Tips To Turn Him On!

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So, you’re about to get it with an Aries man, and you can be a little nervous about not pleasing him enough. This is probably because your Aries man is known to be energetic and has a high s3x drive and stamina so, you want to keep up. Here’s how.

To turn your Aries man on in bed, you need to become submissive and let him lead the sessions. Be open to trying out new things in the bedroom. Be ready to do it in public places and ask him about his desires. Be ready to make love often and give him a lot of oral pleasure.

If you think that these tips are more on the vague side, well, we’ve just scratched the surface…

Aries Man in Bed: What It’s Like…

Being in bed with an Aries man is spontaneous and fun. He is impatient and adventurous with what he wants to do in the bedroom. He will always want to take the lead. He also is into the physicality of making love more than the emotional side of it. Expect it to be an adventure always!

More tea is spilled below.

He doesn’t like scheduled love making

Aries Man In Bed, 7 Steamy Tips To Turn Him On

If you do not already know this about your Aries man, he is very impulsive, and this also applies to the bedroom. So, if you are a Taurus who likes routine, it will annoy the hell out of your Aries man. He wants the act of lovemaking to be spontaneous and very often.

He is also impatient, and so you cannot expect an Aries man to wait for you to be ready. If he wants it, he will go for it. It does not matter whether you’re in the kitchen or the balcony. So, you better be ready.

He takes the lead

Your Aries man is a natural-born leader, and this will also show this in the bedroom. When having coitus with him, you will experience him being in command and wanting things to happen his way. I mean, don’t get me wrong. You can give suggestions, but he won’t always follow them unless he likes them.

In bed, he can also be very stubborn. He doesn’t obey the rules and wants to be adventurous all the time. So, expect that you are going to be experiencing a lot of new things in the bedroom with your Aries man.

He does not get emotional

After coitus, you may wonder why your Aries man doesn’t cuddle you. This cannot be taken as a sign that he is not into you. He might be, but do not expect that he would get emotional after making love because he is much more into the physicality of it rather than its emotional side.

This also does not mean that he is a total jerk. It’s just that once it gets spicier out of the bedroom, the more action you will get in it.

7 Tips to Turn On your Aries Man in Bed

If you do not know what to do to get your Aries man to want you more and more in bed, I have listed 7 tips below to do just that! 

Be submissive

Aries Man In Bed, 7 Steamy Tips To Turn Him On

In the case of an Aries man, it is important to let him know that he is in charge and responsible in the bedroom. However, you need to be ready to follow his directions and decisions. Some men like to be dominated by his woman in the bedroom, but this is not the same for an Aries man.

You need to be down with everything that he wants to happen. So, you also need to be imaginative, and if you follow him, expect to be taken somewhere you don’t want to get out of. You will never be bored for sure.

Be fun

Again, your Aries man does not like romantic, slow, and boring coitus. He likes it rough. So, you need to overpower, or at least, keep up with his energy. You need to be able to jump on board and not overthink his ideas.

You know that he won’t go for the classic missionary position. He will instead go for something new, adventurous, and one that will spike up his adrenaline. You should be fun enough to be willing to experiment with him. Give his ego a little boost when making love to him.

Be ready to do it in public places

The danger of getting caught and getting in trouble turns on your Aries man. So, it just makes sense that your Aries man would want to do it in public places. He will also get even crazier when you initiate it. This can happen in the restroom of a restaurant, at the beach at night, and literally anywhere.

Ask about his desires

Aries Man In Bed, 7 Steamy Tips To Turn Him On

Your Aries man will go crazy if you are the type to ask him about what he wants to do with you. You can do it casually by stroking his face and asking him. This can be a little roleplay between the two of you. I am telling you – this will excite him! Do not forget to take notes for your future reference.

Be ready to make love very often

Your Aries man has a high s3x drive so to turn him on, you need to match this. He will want to make love as often as he can! You can also do a little foreplay with him. You can send him suggestive text messages with naughty pictures or texts.

He wants to enjoy his life to the fullest, and this also includes his s3x life. And so, if you’re the lucky person he chose to do that, you are very lucky! If he falls in love with you, you will not even worry about not making love when you both get older!

Be open for quickies

With an x drive like Aries’, it just makes sense that he would want quickies! If you would rather do it with a candlelit environment and a hot and steamy session, you need to also learn to enjoy quickies. You need to be able to learn how to fit love-making into your busy schedule. To an Aries man, that is very sexy!

Aside from him enjoying it, he will also think of you all evening and how hot you are!

Give a lot of fellatio

Aries Man In Bed, 7 Steamy Tips To Turn Him On

As much as he likes to please you and give you cunnilingus (oral pleasure with his tongue), he also wants to receive it as much as he’s giving. He gets pleasure by giving you it because he wants to savor the taste of every intimate moment with you.

In return, you also need to be good at giving him what he wants. If you do not consider yourself an expert at performing fellatio with him, you need to start studying how to do it properly and expertly. (If you are looking for a good resource for this, click here to learn how to give great head.)

Are Aries Men “Freaks” in Bed?

Yes, they are. They get creative with what they want to do with you. They do not like to do missionary alone. They can get into BDSM really quickly. They get into spanking, a little bondage, a whole lot of oral pleasure, and s3x toys! They will always want to dominate you in the bedroom.

He gets very imaginative and creative when it comes to having intercourse. He likes dirty talks and things that you usually do not do in the bedroom. His desires are pretty straightforward. He is not vanilla in bed! He is even far from it. He likes spanking, mild bondage, toys, and a lot of oral pleasure! He will want to dominate you and do some kinky trends he has been thinking about.

You see submissiveness is one of the aphrodisiacs of your Aries man, and there is nothing that turns him on the most than being on the giving end. There can be a little sexual aggression that will sexually satisfy him. However, he will make sure that there is consent.

Your Aries man in bed, in a nutshell

To turn an Aries man on in bed, you need to:

  • Be submissive.
  • Be fun.
  • Be ready to do it in public places.
  • Ask him about his desires.
  • Be ready to make love often.
  • Be open for quickies.
  • Give a lot of oral pleasure

Enjoy!