What Does An Aries Woman Like In A Man?

What Does An Aries Woman Like In A Man?

If you want to set up the Aries lady in your life with the perfect partner or win her heart for yourself, you should know what characteristics she looks for in the opposite sex.

An Aries woman wants a man who can be her best friend. He should be funny, clever, athletic, and ambitious. The right guy should have some of the same positive qualities as an Aries woman, but be different enough from her that he can balance her negative traits.

Sounds simple enough, but we’ve just scratched the surface…

Before we delve into the details about what an Aries woman likes in a man, I wanted to mention a program that I’ve discovered. It’s the most comprehensive program for men to succeed with women that I’ve come across.

Whether you’re going on your first date, or have been married for years, this program cuts to the root. It gives men their power back.

Check out Derek Rake’s “Shogun Method“. It’s not specifically about Aries women but about male and female psychology and how you can use that to your advantage.

That said, I’ll also provide a link at the end of this article. Let’s get into the characteristics your Aries woman likes in a man.

Table of Contents

10 Characteristics an Aries Woman Loves in a Man

Sense of Humor

What Does An Aries Woman Like In A Man?

Every zodiac sign has either a positive or negative polarity. Aries is one of the six positive signs of the zodiac, meaning that an Aries woman is optimistic and loves to laugh.

She doesn’t like to surround herself with negative people and won’t settle down with a pessimistic, humorless guy. Her ideal partner doesn’t have to have the same sense of humor, but he should be light-hearted and funny in his own way.

A sense of humor is so important to an Aries woman because she wants a partner who can be both her lover and her best friend. She needs to be able to tease and joke with him like one of her girlfriends.

An Aries woman is very independent and enjoys her freedom, so she won’t give up her time or sacrifice her freedom for a man unless he can make her laugh.


Each astrological sign correlates with a set of body parts that reveals something important about that sign’s personality and values. Aries rules the head, face, and brain.

This tells us that Aries women are highly intelligent. Not only are they smart, but they can also think very quickly.

An Aries woman is an asset during a crisis because, although she might get emotional, she can also react quickly and come up with a fast solution.

Intelligence is important to an Aries woman, and she has to have a mental connection with a guy to be interested in him. You should never dumb yourself down to try to impress an Aries woman because it will have the opposite effect.

Use fractionation to connect emotionally…

At this point, I want to talk about fractionation… What is fractionation you ask… Fractionation is like putting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster. It’s a sequence of repeated, intensifying cycles of emotional ups and downs… You give her an emotional high, then an emotional low, etc.

Women are emotional “creatures” and really connect with movies, activities, and, men who satisfy their emotional needs. For her, the emotional ride that fractionation creates is absolutely addicting!

For instance, you can send one-sentence texts using fractionation, in one of these 2 formats:

  • express your approval of one of her bad qualities… or,
  • express disapproval of one of her good qualities…

For example, “I love how you can be so boring.” or “I’m disgusted by your good manners.”

Statements like this will stop her in her tracks and she’ll reply to your texts asking what you mean.

This is just a quick example… Click here to read more details about fractionation in the Shogun Method.


What Does An Aries Woman Like In A Man?

Aries is perhaps the most athletic and energetic sign of the entire zodiac. An Aries lady often works in a field that showcases her competitive, physical side, such as being an athletic coach or a personal trainer.

An Aries woman needs a strong, healthy partner who can keep up with her. You don’t need to be a professional athlete, but you should enjoy working out and be fit enough to accompany her on her adventures.

An Aries woman is always at the gym, walking her dog, or even at a sports bar cheering on her favorite team. She wants a partner who shares these same interests, and she isn’t attracted to a couch potato.


As one of the most independent signs of the zodiac, an Aries woman is never clingy and she can’t stand it when a partner is too needy. She feels suffocated when a man wants to spend all of his time with her.

She needs a guy who can give her space, so don’t bombard her with calls and texts when you’re not with her, and don’t try to tie her down with plans every day. She is attracted to a man who has a life outside of the relationship, so show her that you have your own hobbies and friends.


Although she is fiercely independent and doesn’t need anyone to take care of her, an Aries woman secretly likes being nurtured by her partner.

Her private yearning for a caretaker is best explained by her astrological sign’s “age.” Each sign has a spiritual age based on that sign’s position in the order of the zodiac. As the first zodiac sign, Aries is the “youngest.”

This means that Aries is the baby of the zodiac, and while an Aries woman is self-sufficient and doesn’t need anyone to support her, she enjoys being coddled by her partner.

She is too proud to ask for help, but she loves it when her man performs acts of service that make her feel cherished. Bringing her breakfast in bed, rubbing her feet, or warming up her car for her when it’s cold will go a long way towards winning over an Aries lady.


What Does An Aries Woman Like In A Man?

An Aries woman isn’t one to hold back her feelings, so she often tells her partner how amazing, handsome, smart, and special he is. If an Aries woman is in love, she can be her partner’s best cheerleader.

But she doesn’t want her partner to rely on her for his self-esteem. She wants a self-confident guy, not someone she constantly has to reassure.

Confidence is also important in an Aries woman’s ideal man because she can be flirtatious. She won’t be unfaithful if she’s in a committed relationship, but she likes attention from the opposite sex and can be very coquettish.

Her partner needs to have enough self-confidence to understand that her flirtatiousness doesn’t mean anything and she’s not going to leave him for another man.


Some women crave stability and predictability in a relationship, but an Aries lady is not one of those women.

An Aries woman yearns for excitement in her life and her relationship, so she needs a partner who is just as adventurous and playful as she is. She enjoys traveling, exploring new places, and any activity that gives her an adrenaline rush.

The best match for her is a guy who likes to try new things and wants as thrilling of a lifestyle as she does.

Her ideal man should love activities like riding roller coasters, white water rafting, and sky-diving, or at least be willing to try them when she suggests them. Better yet, he should be the one to initiate these exciting exploits.


Aries is a very impulsive sign, and although an Aries woman has habits and a daily routine, he also needs the occasional break from the ordinary.

Her perfect partner is the perfect combination of steady and spontaneous. He should help keep her grounded and discourage her from doing anything impulsive that could hurt her, but also be willing to do spontaneous things with her.

Perhaps an Aries woman and her partner will be going for an evening walk, only to stop by a club and dance the night away instead. Maybe, instead of planning a vacation, they spin a globe and let fate choose their destination.


An Aries woman has many wonderful qualities, but patience isn’t one of them. He hates waiting and needs instant gratification. Traffic jams and long lines are a couple of her biggest pet peeves.

Her ideal partner should be much more patient than she is so he can keep her calm and entertained when she is forced to wait for something. If she’s getting irritable because they are standing at the end of a long line at the grocery store, he should be able to soothe her and make her laugh to keep her mind off the wait.

An Aries woman’s immaturity, selfishness, and brutal honesty make her annoying sometimes, so her partner should be very patient with her, as well.


What Does An Aries Woman Like In A Man?

Every zodiac sign belongs to one of four natural elements: fire, air, earth, or water. A sign’s element reveals that sign’s disposition.

Aries is a fire sign, and fire signs are known for being passionate, temperamental, and hot-headed. An Aries woman is very mercurial, and it’s very easy to make this zodiac sign mad.

She is also extremely honest and never holds back her true feelings. You won’t have to wonder where you stand with an Aries lady or what she really thinks of you because she is incapable of lying and will tell you directly to your face.

When she gets upset, she may lash out at her partner, even if he’s not the reason why she’s mad. Sometimes, she says harsh things in the heat of the moment that she regrets later.

But although she gets furious quickly, she apologizes and calms down just as fast. She needs a guy who can keep up with her mood swings and won’t take her grumpiness personally. Her ideal partner should be able to forgive and move on quickly, and she will do the same for him.

Get more details about connecting with her emotionally…

OK. Now that we’ve covered the details and characteristics that an Aries woman likes…

I mentioned at the beginning if you are looking for more in-depth (Military Grade) training to get your Aries woman addicted to you emotionally, then I’d also suggest you check out relationship expert Derek Rake’s “Shogun Method“.

Derek has studied and perfected fundamental psychology-based techniques that you can follow in an easy step-by-step method.

These aren’t gimmicky “pickup lines” and fad tricks. If you are interested in taking your power back using fractionation, then you should click here to check out Derek’s Shogun Method.

This is the most comprehensive program I’ve ever seen for men to succeed in any relationship, from the dating phase to being married for many years.

What an Aries woman likes in a man, final words…

If you want to find the best match for an Aries lady, you should know the quintessential characteristics of her zodiac sign and what traits she wants in her ideal partner.

An Aries woman is drawn to a smart, exciting, and independent guy. She wants someone who is similar to her enough that they have common values and interests, but different enough that he balances and complements her.

A patient, supportive, and thrill-seeking man is exactly what an Aries woman needs.



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Comments & Reviews

  1. laszlo bagu Avatar
    laszlo bagu

    I was relieved to read this feature about Aries women’s expectations from their partners even if it did tend to overgeneralize a bit. Is the list really that unique though? Are the traits listed not pretty much applicable to any woman of the Zodiac: intelligence, nurturing, excitement, athleticism. Are there any women who DON’T want those traits? So, Aries woman is simultaneously unique and particular but with universal desires. A patient, thrill-seeking man is what Aries women want in a man, and he should be smart, honest and loyal. OK, that doesn’t sound like too much to ask, quite reasonable, actually. She wants to really LIVE life to its fullest potential. Me too. What other option is there: live life halfway, 75%, 98%?
    So nice to see you smile Sam. Did you listen to CHOM FM this afternoon? You may have caught a tribute to your fine self: ‘LADY’ by Styx. It is the perfect song. It says everything.

  2. laszlo bagu Avatar
    laszlo bagu

    Can’t believe I’m back here. I guess I must have Aries on the brain. Things could be much worse, so I’m not complaining. From what I’ve learned about Aries ladies thus far, even their so-called ‘negative’ traits are positive in their own way. They’re a challenge that will either inspire a guy to step up his game because he doesn’t want to risk losing something or someone that precious, or, it’ll send him running in the opposite direction. I’d much rather fight than run, thank you. I save my running for the track oval where it belongs. Running away from relationship challenges solves nothing and only sets a bad precedent for the future. That ain’t happening on MY watch, not ever.
    Wow, a smile AND a hug in one day! I really AM one lucky SOB. You changed my life for the better when you boldly barged in 3 years ago, Sam. You are brave and obviously passionate. I don’t know what I did to deserve your attention and obvious caring. Maybe you’ll explain it to me one day, and yes, I AM fishing for compliments. You could always post a kissy face emoji, I won’t mind, honest. My God but you are sweet.
    I’ve had a long and busy day but you helped make it go by quickly and painlessly. I’m not sure how I’d cope if you ever lost interest and decided to leave. I’d be devastated. So please don’t. As The Rolling Stones famously said: “…Ain’t too proud to beg…” I can’t be any clearer or more honest. Everything’s in your hands from now on. You call the shots and I’ll happily follow your lead. What’s with the stuffed white shirt? I open up my heart and you give me ‘the shirt’? What is wrong with you?! Never mind, I’m going to bed. Your emojis tire me out and frustrate me. Is that the goal? Well, you’ve succeeded. I’ll be staying off the grid for a while. Need to think things over. Bye. Yeah, ‘formal’ THIS!

  3. laszlo bagu Avatar
    laszlo bagu

    I was curious about the reputed athleticism of Aries women. In addition, I got a complete breakdown of their personality in this feature, which was enjoyable and encouraging. Who WOULDN’T like an Aries woman? That’s right Sam, nobody wouldn’t like an Aries woman. I guess this gives you bragging rights. And why not? Brag away McElkabas and rub it in as many faces as possible. For me, it’s still a toss-up between simply desiring an athletic partner versus really ‘needing’ one. As long as you’re even in some little way a part of my life, I don’t need anything else. There, satisfied?
    Sleep well. I always enjoy sleeping through a storm most of all; it reminds me of Brasil. In some ways, I could still argue today that the very best times of my life were my 1st 8 years in Sao Paulo. They were magical, scary, and eye-opening. I would love nothing more than to tell you all about it sometime.
    Sweet dreams sweet angel. As always, I wish you only the best. That will never change. Just not possible.

  4. laszlo bagu Avatar
    laszlo bagu

    I’ve read numerous such comments over the last 6 or so months & they seem to generally agree with and confirm each other, so there’s a predictable consistency here. The way I see it, Aries women are clearly NOT for everyone. By their very nature they are competitive and have high expectations of their men. They CAN be a challenge and you have to decide whether you’re up to the challenge or even want to be. They will push you to make you the best you can be. I believe that that is ideal for building a strong, long lasting, and mutually supportive relationship and hopefully, if all goes well, marriage and parenting. Yes, partners should have each others’ backs, but, ideally, they should also challenge each other. It’s as good as it gets in a less than perfect world.
    It is my privilege and good fortune to know an Aries woman named Sam. I’m almost completely certain that she would agree with this.

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