Is The Gemini Woman Controlling?

A fun and loving Gemini woman is very independent and ambitious. However, this does not mean that your relationship is going to be perfect. After all, everybody has a dark side. Does your Gemini woman has a controlling side? Let’s find out!

A Gemini woman can be controlled if you notice that she gets jealous of girls very quickly. She will hide it at first, but she will be annoying you about it later. She also gets possessive and wants to know your whereabouts all the time. Lastly, she is overly clingy and wants to hang out every now and then.

If you are still not sure if your Gemini woman is truly controlling, you might want to keep reading! I have also written about her red flags and ways to deal with her. Enjoy!

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Red Flags Of A Gemini Woman

When you think of a woman, you think of an indecisive person. This is most evident when you ask one where to eat. Well, double is the trouble with a Gemini woman because of her nature. We need to remember that a Gemini woman is represented by a twin.

So, it only makes sense that the woman is the most indecisive person you will ever meet because imagine being loved one day and then hated the next. That’s a red flag by itself.

Because she is symbolized by two faces, expect her to be very inconsistent with her moods. This does not only apply to her mood but also her decisions, even big ones. She might be saying she is sure of one today but isn’t sure again tomorrow. She is also very nosy and likes to get into the business of others.

Is The Gemini Woman Controlling?

I can’t really speak for all Gemini women, but there are tendencies that she can be. If you are with a controlling Gemini woman, it may all be rooted down to her insecurities and maybe some trauma that she might have had as a kid.

If you really want to make sure that your Gemini woman is controlling or not, here are some of the signs that she is.

Signs That A Gemini Woman Is Controlling

She gets jealous very quickly

One thing that a Gemini woman hides is her jealousy of other women, especially if these women are people you are close with or had romantic relationships with. Watch her change her mood instantly once you get in contact with these people.

And if you ask her what’s wrong, she’s not going to respond with a direct answer. Instead, she is going to playfully answer you with a teasing joke.

She is going to act cool as if she did not just get pierced in the heart. And this is the thing about Gemini people. They know how to hide what they truly feel. That is what’s certainly happening to your Gemini woman. Sometimes, she can also act like she does not care at all. This can be her defense mechanism.

She is possessive

It is rare for a person with a Gemini placement to be possessive because Gemini people usually value freedom so much. They know that individuality is important in any relationship – may it be casual or romantic.

They usually do not get the urge to control or manipulate people because they are easygoing. They go with the flow.

But if your Gemini woman is getting possessive with your accounts, your time, and your attention, it is a sign that she is a controlling lover. She needs to keep track of whatever you do and wherever you go. She constantly asks for updates and will want to be with you all the time.

She wants to have access to every social media account – even your e-mail.

She is clingy

Clinginess can sometimes be cute, but if it is too much, it can be very annoying.

Again, it is very rare for Gemini people to have this trait when in love because they want to keep their options open. They want to continue exploring what’s out in the world and its endless possibilities. Usually, after getting what they want from the person, they leave.

When your Gemini woman is suddenly clinging onto you all the time, you might have to run because eventually, she is going to want to control your life in the relationship.

She is going to want to manipulate you into doing whatever it is that she wants. It can be really suffocating for you. So, if you notice this sign, it is time to run.

Ways To Deal With A Controlling Gemini Woman

Dealing with a controlling Gemini woman can be a rollercoaster ride because you can be manipulated through her words and give in but other days, you get annoyed.

She is really good with words so she really does know what to say and what to do. But to deal with her, you just need to pay attention to what she is saying. Let her feel that whatever it is that she is saying matters. Make her feel important.

do not ever storm off or ignore her because there is nothing more disrespectful to her than that. She is going to get furious and angry when you do that.

Instead, sit her down and just start the conversation. Have “the talk” so she will know where you are coming from. There are possibilities that she does not know where you are coming from. So, it is important to open the situation up to her.

Ways To Break Up With A Controlling Gemini Woman

Do it in person

Again, a Gemini woman is a good communicator – not only through words but through her actions and emotions. So, for her to see that you are sincere and apologetic about the breakup, show it to her in person.

Do not break up with her over a phone call or a text message because that would be very disrespectful to her.

You can maybe invite her to dinner or go to her house for a quick chat. However, you need to provide warning signs beforehand. Do not just come at her with “I’m breaking up with you” one peaceful night. That would surely ruin her.

You also need to make sure that you make it clear that it is your last decision. You do not want to give false hopes.

Be straightforward

Beating around the bush is so over in this decade. People certainly do not have time to figure out whatever it is that you are trying to say.

She is a Gemini woman after all – she has dreams and goals. She does not have time to play some guessing games with you. So, if you really want to break up with her, be clear about it. Tell her the truth.

Make sure that your reasons are clear. She does not want a dramatic breakup because she knows that you are too old for that. Being straightforward is also a sign that you are a strong person.

You are strong enough to face the consequences that are going to happen next, especially with a Gemini woman being your ex. I am saying this because she has a lot of friends and you know what happens during girl talk.

They gossip. So, be ready to be the talk of the town for weeks. Be prepared to hear a lot of bad things about you.

Is the Gemini woman controlling? Final thoughts…

She can be if:

  • She gets jealous very quickly
  • She is possessive
  • She is clingy



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