The Scorpio man exudes a powerful presence but remains mysterious. He is private and often tries to judge a person on his first impression. There is a saying that Scorpio is a wannabe fire sign but there is some truth to this, as a fixed element, he is determined, ruthless, and can be possessive in love.
When a Scorpio man is done with you, the passion has already faded. There is no feeling of sensuality or drive to keep you in his life. He is already detached. He may even look for a casual hookup for distractions and makes an unforgiving ex when wronged.
If you are looking for more in-depth training to get your Scorpio man’s interest back no matter what situation you are facing, then you should also check out zodiac-based dating expert Anna Kovach’s book Scorpio Man Secrets.
Anna’s book is really insightful. I’d recommend that you check it out after you’ve read my article (I’ll link to her book at the end of this article for you)!
That said, let’s see what it looks like when a Scorpio man is in love…
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The Scorpio man in love
The Scorpio man makes a loyal and devoted partner to the person he loves. He is intense. He is a man personified by Hades. The Scorpio man feels deeply and intense which may be too much for most. He is psychologically talented and can use manipulation to get people to do his bidding.
Control is a must for the Scorpio man in love. He must feel that his lover is loyal to him. He would demand that she update him on her whereabouts or what she’s up to. He might look like he is condescending but he is actually sensitive and can show kindness, especially to the ones he loves.
As the Scorpio man is a private person, it will take quite a long time for him to open up. That is why intimacy is something he craves but rarely achieves because he tends to look for loopholes instead of appreciating love as it is, which is to allow himself to be vulnerable.
If Scorpio can say anything to the person he loves, it would be, “Please don’t doubt my love for you, it is the only thing I am sure of.”
His sign has a reputation to be fixated on revenge especially if betrayed.
Most of the time, he gets called toxic, but nothing is as addictive and passionate as how Scorpio men love. Otherwise, a Scorpio man in love makes a faithful and generous lover, even beyond what movies can show when he is finally able to feel at home in a person.
What are your chances with your Scorpio man?
Before we review the signs your Scorpio man has moved on or if he’s done with you, it’s probably a good idea for you to check how compatible you are with him!
Anna Kovach created a fun quiz to determine your compatibility with your Scorpio man. There are 9 easy questions! Start Anna’s Quiz!
How to tell when a Scorpio man has moved on
He will give you power struggles
When a Scorpio man is going through a separation, he will definitely retaliate. Scorpio men are one of the hardest signs to break up with. He loves his woman too much and won’t let go of her even if he has to resort to using manipulative tricks and power trips.
If he believes to have been betrayed, he will be stubborn not to split any of the shared belongings during your time together. A Scorpio man’s biggest dealbreaker is betrayal. If infidelity was involved, it usually means a permanent dissolution with a Scorpio and it will be very difficult to plead for forgiveness.
If a Scorpio man was a character in a book, he’d be the tyrannical antagonist with a fragile heart. He may also be compared to the villain origin story of a stalker or serial killer through a quick disclaimer that this is just to visualize what could the Scorpio man felt.
Scorpio is a sign that does not respect limitations and always tends to break boundaries just in the pursuit of what he wants.
He doesn’t see you alone
A Scorpio man likes his privacy and if he likes his woman, he would want to get time alone with you. In that way, he is comfortable in getting to share maybe surface knowledge about his life and he gets to know you personally without anyone else’s opinions.
Sometimes he may try to get a woman he likes alone but suddenly stop midway, often times this is how he shows he is no longer interested. It is not uncommon for the Scorpio sign to ghost people, they are not even remorseful in doing that.
He doesn’t make an effort to keep in touch
If a Scorpio man still has feelings for you, he will try to keep tabs. He may find indirect ways to be updated with you. He could enlist the help of his friends or make dummy accounts on social media. He might even let you know when he gets jealous, he can’t help it but only if he still sees you as his.
However, when a Scorpio man has decided to move forward, he won’t bother to communicate. He won’t text, won’t answer calls, and is pretty much disinterested in what you’re doing with your life. The Scorpio man stopped caring.
The Scorpio man is possessive in love and the lack of worry is worrying if you intend to get him back.
He can’t look you in the eye
If there is one thing the Scorpio man craves the most, it is pure intimacy but he is too controlling and possessive that it is uncommon for his lover to feel suffocated.
He wants to see love when he sees his person, if he is not showing interest that whenever you are together he looks away, then maybe he does not have feelings for you anymore.
When the Scorpio man is in love, he can’t help but observe you. He studies you. He likes it when you see him staring. He knows his eyes are captivating and is actually one of the ways he would use to seduce you.
He doesn’t make an effort to keep you in love
The Scorpio man is a fixed sign, when he has fixated on the subject of his desire, he is ready to embody Edward Cullen from Twilight, or any heartthrob main character from a movie ever. He wants you to feel like you’ve won the lottery.
When he is captivated by someone, he does not mind making an effort to win you over. If he no longer is interested in seeing you, there will be no chase. Just coldness and remnants of the Scorpio man that used to sweep his girl over her feet.
He casually hooks up
The Scorpio man is an expert with detachment. He is perfectly capable of having sexual relationships with other women with no strings attached. Although Scorpio is symbolized by the Scorpion, he is also represented by the Phoenix, he is immortal and will rise despite his broken heart.
He may easily be called a sign of contradiction but as they say, Scorpio is still a water sign, and maybe this is his way of going with the flow.
He treats you terribly
When a Scorpio man is in love, he is protective and sensitive to the needs of his lover. He may be controlling but he is also the type to pay attention to every detail of her needs.
When going through a separation, he becomes defensive. The Scorpio man may have felt insulted as to why someone would want to break up with him in the first place since he is loyal and basically to the death kind of person.
He might act begin to act rudely towards you. If he isn’t violent maybe he will go with sarcastic remarks. The Scorpio man would be direct to the point and allow his Scorpion nature to take over. When bitter to his partner, he has a lot of daydreams about how to make his ex-lover suffer.
For the Scorpio man, it is you and him or be prepared for his wrath, though in reality, he is actually in pain, and the phrase “trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you’ve never met.” applies here.
Get more insights into your Scorpio man…
As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, check out Anna Kovach’s book, Scorpio Man Secrets, for more in-depth training for you to deal with your Scorpio man no matter what situation you find yourself in.
Anna’s methods can turn things around for you. In no time, you will have him desiring you and thinking about you all the time.
If you hadn’t already tried her quiz, then do it now… Take Anna’s Relationship Compatibility Quiz for specific insights into your relationship compatibility.
When your Scorpio man is done with you, in a nutshell…
The Scorpio man is done with you when he has already disappeared from your life. A Scorpio man that has successfully moved on from you wants nothing to do with you. He doesn’t get jealous if you are with another man or see someone else.
That is usually the better scenario, a Scorpio man that is struggling to face the separation will most likely stalk you, use manipulative tactics, or push through power struggles to convince you to stay. He may also treat you badly and wish you nothing but misery.
The Scorpio man is full of revenge when betrayed and can be a powerful enemy or difficult ex, if you will when provoked.
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