How To Get A Gemini Man To Chase You?

How to get at Gemini Man to Chase you!
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When it comes to romance and relationships, Gemini is one of the zodiac signs that loves the thrill of the chase. So, how do you get a Gemini man, born between May 21st and June 20th, to pursue you?

To get a Gemini man to chase you, you must communicate with him and be a good listener, be independent, confident, stylish, and mysterious. If you show a Gemini guy you possess these personality traits, you will have him running after you.

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Be an Excellent Communicator & Great Listener

Gemini is one of the most communicative signs of the zodiac, thanks to some of its astrological influences.

First, the sign Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, information, and technology. This means that Geminis are very social and intellectually curious, making them outgoing and talkative.

Second, Gemini, along with Libra and Aquarius, belongs to the air element. Air signs are the sociologists and socialites of the zodiac. They are interested in other people and so they need to have strong communication skills to get to know others and convey their message to society.

Geminis love to gossip and if you let them, they may talk your ear off. If you want to attract a Gemini man, you’ve got to be a generous and patient listener.

It’s not enough, though, to be a good listener. If you want a Gemini guy to chase you, you have to uphold your end of the conversation, as well.

Although they tend to dominate the conversation, Geminis want to hear what you have to say, too. They are quite smart and love learning new things, so try to engage your Gemini man in a discussion about your passions, hobbies, or skills. If you can teach him something new, you are sure to grab his interest.

Geminis are also clever and quick-witted, and they enjoy the use of wordplay. If you can exchange flirtatious quips and sexy banter, your Gemini guy will follow you around like a lovesick puppy.

Geminis don’t take themselves too seriously, so don’t be afraid to tease him when you flirt. You can crack jokes at his expense as long as you show him you are interested and slip in a few compliments, as well.

Be Independent and Self-Confident

Geminis are very independent and they don’t need to be with their partners all the time. A Gemini guy can’t stand having a clingy or codependent partner.

If you want to make a Gemini guy chase you, you have to show him you have a life of your own. He wants a partner who is just as busy and self-confident as he is.

Because they are so social and tend to keep crazy schedules, Geminis need someone who can adapt to any environment. A Gemini guy wants a woman he knows will fit in anywhere from a black-tie gala to a dive bar. She should be gregarious and self-assured enough that he doesn’t have to babysit her when they go out together.

Geminis lavish their loved ones with confidence, and a Gemini guy will happily be your biggest cheerleader. But a Gemini doesn’t want to feel responsible for someone else’s self-esteem.

He will encourage and praise you, but he doesn’t want to be with someone who needs constant ego boosts. To him, it comes off as insecurity, and he wonders why you like him if you don’t even like yourself.

Geminis also tend to be quite flirtatious, even when they are in a committed relationship. Just because he likes attention and is a natural flirt doesn’t mean he is disloyal, though.

A Gemini guy needs a confident woman who won’t get jealous or upset when he chats up other girls. She should trust him and know that their relationship is strong enough to withstand a little harmless banter.

Be Well-Groomed and Have a Unique Sense of Style

Some signs don’t care about fashion or notice the details of a woman’s style. Most men can’t tell when a woman is wearing makeup or not, let alone if she got a haircut or a new outfit.

But Gemini men pay careful attention to looks and grooming, and they are usually quite stylish and quirky. They tend to be creative and love expressing themselves through fashion.

If you are trying to spot a Gemini man in a crowd, he is the one with the immaculately groomed facial hair, the loud and colorful outfit, or the eccentric accessories.

A Gemini guy loves when a woman has a bold and unique fashion sense, just like him. If your looks show off your colorful personality and make you stand out, you are sure to catch the eye of a Gemini man.

Along with a distinctive style, Geminis are attracted to meticulous grooming. A Gemini guy notices when a woman is freshly scrubbed and takes time putting together her hair and makeup. He appreciates the effort and it shows him that you are confident enough to take good care of yourself.

If you wear the same dirty sweatpants and sloppy ponytail every time you see your Gemini guy, he will think that you don’t care about looking good for him… or yourself.

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Be Mysterious and Hard to Get

Some signs like when the object of their affection plays hard to get. It increases the excitement of the early stages of dating and getting to know someone.

Geminis have short attention spans and they get bored easily, so a Gemini man seeks a partner who can keep him on his toes. He prefers a dramatic, intense relationship rather than a steady one, which he finds tedious.

A Gemini man doesn’t mind fighting for a woman because to him, it means that she knows her worth and has plenty of options. He wants a woman who chooses to be in a relationship with him because he stands above the rest, not because she is needy and will settle for just anyone.

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Holding a Gemini man’s attention requires the skillful balance between being unavailable yet interested. You should let him know that you are into him, but don’t show him all your cards right away.

For example, don’t try to make a Gemini guy jealous as a way of playing hard to get. This could hurt his feelings or be taken as a sign that you don’t like him, and he will back off. Instead, let him wonder if you are dating other people by making lots of plans with other people and not always being available to him whenever he wants to see you.

Similarly, you should be open and honest with him, but don’t spill all your secrets right away. You can give him a direct answer when he asks a question or smile enigmatically and say you’ll save that conversation for another time.

Remember that a relationship is a marathon, not a race. You don’t want to unwrap all your layers for a Gemini man right away. Let him take his time getting to know your history and all the fascinating facets of your personality.

You can also keep your Gemini man guessing by being spontaneous. Surprise him with a thoughtful gift, throw in a fun activity when you run errands together, or take him on a last-minute weekend trip.

If you show a Gemini guy that you are complex, mysterious, and free-spirited, he will chase you to the ends of the earth.


If you want to know how to get any man to pursue you, you need look no further than his astrological sign. His zodiac sign’s personality traits and psychological characteristics will tell you everything you need to know to make him come running after you.

To make a Gemini man chase you, you must have strong communication skills, be self-assured and independent, have a unique and impeccable sense of style, and play hard to get.

If you show your Gemini guy that you possess all of these qualities, then he will know you are the total package he is looking for. He will have no choice but to pursue you and try to make you his.

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