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7 Cancer Woman Weaknesses in Love

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Every zodiac sign has its own certain weaknesses, and Cancer is no exception. Cancer women are one of the zodiac signs that constantly appear to be kind yet there are some bad characteristics of Cancer to be cautious of. Your Cancer woman’s weaknesses are rarely displayed, but you’ll be shocked once you know them.

A Cancer woman’s weakness includes being emotional and moody when certain things may trigger her. She is also cautious of anyone she meets as a way of guarding herself, she can also get possessive, clingy, and manipulative to get what she wants. She can be pessimistic and will withdraw when she feels dissatisfied.

Sounds simple enough, but we’ve just scratched the surface…

Before we delve into the details about the weakness of a Cancer woman in love, I wanted to mention a program that I’ve discovered. It’s the most comprehensive program for men to connect with a woman. As you probably know, men and women express their love differently…

This method isn’t specifically about Cancer women, but is about male and female psychology and using fractionation (explained below) to help men connect with women the way women want… “Emotionally”. Check out “the Shogun Method” for really good insights into the woman you desire.

That said, I’ll also provide a link at the end of this article. Let’s get to know your Cancer woman a little…

Dating a Cancer Woman

7 Cancer Woman Weaknesses in Love

It’s all about trust with the Cancer woman because before she falls for any potential partner, she needs to make sure that they are loyal and trustworthy. Unfortunately, her anxiety of betrayal is what keeps her from finding real love. On the other hand, the Cancer woman will find incredible tenderness and long-term satisfaction with the proper dedicated partner.

Cancer women are extremely sensitive and insecure. She will misinterpret compliments and believe the world is out to get her and because cancer women have low self-esteem, they expect people to pass judgment on them. She is unaware of how wonderful and valuable she is, and as a result, she often settles for less than she deserves.

When a Cancer woman knows someone she cares about is in pain, she will be unable to relax. This is due to the fact that they are empaths with strong intuition. She is highly concerned about the individuals in her natural vicinity and she is happy if her loved ones are happy. If her loved ones are upset, however, she will do everything and anything she can to fix the situation.

You’re going to be spoiled good if you date a Cancer woman and even if there isn’t any occasion, she will surprise you with gifts. She’ll always have something pleasant to say because she is naturally romantic.

She’ll never hide her emotions and will tell you whether she cares about you and loves you as she isn’t afraid to show her vulnerability in public. You don’t want to mess with a Cancer woman, despite her sweetness because she can get resentful when her heart is broken and she won’t be pleased if someone takes advantage of her kind nature.

Cancer women are strong. She has an independent side, despite her desire for relationships. She is capable of looking after herself and because she doesn’t want to annoy anyone, she won’t always communicate what’s on her mind, so you must ask how she is feeling if you want to know. Otherwise, she’ll continue to be concerned about others rather than herself.

Cancer women are, above all, generous and she would go to any length for her loved ones but that isn’t to say you should take advantage of her generosity. Cancer women don’t expect anything in return, but they do want to be seen and recognized.

Moreover, she wants to know that her efforts are appreciated even with the smallest gestures. If you’re fortunate enough to have a Cancer woman in your life, don’t forget to tell her how much you appreciate her.

Use fractionation to connect emotionally…

At this point, I want to talk about fractionation… What is fractionation you ask… Fractionation is like putting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster. It’s a sequence of repeated, intensifying cycles of emotional ups and downs… You give her an emotional high, then an emotional low, etc.

Women are emotional “creatures” and really connect with movies, activities, and men who satisfy their emotional needs. For her, the emotional ride that fractionation creates is absolutely addicting!

For instance, you can send one-sentence texts using fractionation, in one of these 2 formats:

  • express your approval of one of her bad qualities… or,
  • express disapproval of one of her good qualities…

For example, “I love how you can be so boring.” or “I’m disgusted by your good manners.”

Statements like this will stop her in her tracks and she’ll reply to your texts asking what you mean.

This is just a quick example… Click here to read more details about fractionation in the Shogun Method.

OK, let’s look at the signs she’s in love…

7 Weaknesses of Cancer Woman in Love

She is emotional

7 Cancer Woman Weaknesses in Love

She can swing from the happiest of highs to the darkest of lows, all while seeking continual validation. She is known for showing genuine sympathy for others, but she also wants great compassion in return. She has the ability to become emotional and intense at any time and when cancer women are not taken seriously, they become infuriated.

Cancer women are emotional souls, yet she keeps her sentiments all to herself. She will go to great lengths to hide her respect and love for someone, regardless of how much she wants to express it and it’s either because she is insecure or because she is afraid of rejection.

She is moody

Cancer women are prone to negative aspects of their personality if they are not greeted with compassion and empathy. In her search for reciprocity, she can become cold-hearted. If these feelings aren’t reciprocated, Cancer women are infamous for being grumpy and moody around you until she gets their way and this frequently entails remaining attached to you at all times.

Cancer women are usually on a rollercoaster of emotions and they may appear tough and level-headed, but this is only because they keep a lot of their emotions and feelings hidden. However, when things get out of hand and she can no longer control her emotions, your cancer woman becomes the most sensitive and moody.

She is cautious

When a Cancer woman is oblivious of what is going on around her, she might be quite suspicious. This comes from a fear of being lied to or deceived in some way and she will distrust others’ intentions until there is a continuous showing of what others around her want to do.

When it comes to relationships, she is quite cautious, and not just in this area, but even in insignificant things, she will question your intentions once and then proceed.

Cancer women are intuitive, but it becomes a work of fiction when her intuitions lead her on the wrong path. When she has bad feelings about you, she will engage in manipulative behavior in order to protect herself or her loved ones.

She is pessimistic

7 Cancer Woman Weaknesses in Love

Cancer women are pessimists when faced with losses or the chance of losing. As a result of her insecurities, your Cancer woman will allow negative thoughts to enter her mind and this is due to the fact that she is afraid of rejection in life. Not only will a Cancer shy away from everyone else and may not even talk to anyone if they are dissatisfied for whatever reason.

She tends to shut down and close herself up to new knowledge once she becomes pessimistic about life. She frequently expresses her pessimism and is hesitant to think positively once she has reached this point.

The high sensitivity of a Cancer woman is both a blessing and a curse, therefore keeping a more upbeat attitude will help when her sensitive tendencies shift into the moody side.

She is manipulative

When it’s necessary, Cancer women may be quite manipulative. She knows just what to say and do to get others around her to do what she wants since she is always full of understanding. Her heightened emotional sensitivity makes her a cautious individual and she is constantly analyzing anyone she lets into her life to ensure that she will not be abused.

She is emotionally demanding and expects people to recognize the level of emotional protection she requires and this is when she starts to appear manipulative. A Cancer woman’s moods shift quickly, yet she is always able to recognize and comprehend others’ emotions.

 While this may be beneficial to those around them, experiencing so many emotions at once that are not her own might be detrimental.

She is clingy

With a Cancer woman, the process of getting to know someone and developing a relationship with them is often prolonged and she reveals far too much information to others and does not hold back what she reveals.

Your Cancer woman understands how to cling, and she tries to justify her behavior by claiming that it is because she cares. Her motivation may be admirable, yet she remains obsessive.

She will cling so tightly to the people in her life that they will be unable to breathe. Cancer women might suffocate you with their love and affection, or worse, their demands to be pampered, once they fall in love. The constant and her influence in your life are extremely important to Cancer women.

She is possessive

7 Cancer Woman Weaknesses in Love

She couldn’t be jealous very often because she falls head over heels in love with the first person she meets. However, if she becomes jealous, she will remain silent and suffer in silence.

She has a tendency to be possessive of both objects and people and if she notices you flirting with someone else, it will heighten her insecurity.

You’ll feel like you have a guardian angel since she’ll be overprotective of what’s hers as she develops a strong emotional bond with you and only withdraws and becomes quiet when she is hurt. When she loves, she loves completely, and she would love it if you can do the same.

More details about getting her emotionally connected to you…

OK. Now that we’ve covered the details about a Cancer woman’s weaknesses in love… I’d suggest you check out more in-depth (Military Grade) training to get your Cancer woman addicted to you emotionally. Derek Rake’s “Shogun Method” has more info than I could possibly cover here.

Derek has studied and perfected fundamental psychology-based techniques that you can follow in an easy step-by-step method. These aren’t gimmicky “pickup lines” and fad tricks. If you are interested in taking your power back using fractionation, then you should click here to check out Derek’s Shogun Method.

This is the most comprehensive program I’ve ever seen for men to succeed with any relationship, from the dating phase to being married for many years.

Cancer Woman’s weaknesses in love, final thoughts…

The weaknesses of a Cancer woman are:

  • She is emotional
  • She is moody
  • She is cautious
  • She is pessimistic
  • She is manipulative
  • She is clingy
  • She is possessive