If you are here, you are probably wondering why your Aries man left or hurt you. You completely do not understand this because you have been so good to him, yet you were still left heartbroken. Now, you want him back. Here are ways to make him regret hurting or losing you.
To make an Aries man regret losing you, you need to let go of the thought of chasing him. Do not argue with him because he hates that. Take this time to work on yourself and build your character. Post happy pictures on social media as a way to let him know that you are living your best life. Lastly, do not contact him.
If you are not yet convinced of these tips, then I suggest you read the article completely because I have explained them one by one.
However, let’s first look at the reasons why an Aries man left you broken.
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One of the reasons why an Aries man left you is that what you were presenting to him may not be something that he has an interest in. He may not be interested because what you are offering may not excite him and gets him on his feet.
If you still have not noticed, your Aries man likes excitement and fun, and so, if you cannot offer that, he is totally going to leave you. If whatever it is that you are offering does not call to them, then he is continuously going to ignore you.
You also may have been a threat to his freedom. If he feels like you are going to restrict his freedom, he is going to leave and ignore you. This is all because your Aries man takes this as the easiest route to leaving this relationship. This is an unpopular opinion about him, but he can be a gentle giant.
Sometimes, he does not like to hurt people. Sometimes he does not mean it, but sometimes he does. He is all about freedom, and so, if he is noticing that you are not respecting that, he is going to leave.
If he thinks that the way you approach him is not as passionate or genuine as it should be, he is going to want to leave the relationship. He values truthfulness and honesty. And so, it is only fitting that he sees this as one of the criteria of being with him.
He may not also see you as someone that has a strength of character, or someone who has will and determination. It may not be clear what you are bringing to the table to him. You see, your Aries man is attracted to power. He is not going to be with someone who is not up to their standards.
Your Aries man probably does not see something in you that he can benefit from. Remember that he is a cardinal sign, and he is not going to accept things that he feels are below his means and do not meet his standards.
He knows how to play the fame and how to make something work to his advantage. You can be offering something that you feel has so many benefits for him but he may think that he is not up to par. You should know that he is attracted to someone who works hard for his or her achievement or status.
Lastly, an Aries man ignores situations that do not make him look good. If he feels like being with you is not a good look for him, then he is definitely going to leave. Remember that he is all about status and his image.
He is ruled by Mars, and so, he is all about making himself look good and climbing up the social ladder. However, do not think that this is a problem that you should worry about. This is just an Aries being an Aries.
Do not chase him
You see, your Aries man has the hottest temperament among all fire signs. This means that he can get mad because of the smallest thing. He often needs to be tested and challenged because he likes that kind of excitement. However, make sure that you do not indulge in his own desire.
Sometimes, he needs to feel the burning passion in order to keep him excited. So, in order to do that, you need to let him know that you are indeed someone who is valuable and that you do not need him in your life.
You should let him know that you are doing your own thing and that you do not deserve the treatment you received from him. Know that if you chase him and beg him to take you back, this will definitely not work and will lead to him just pushing you away even more.
An Aries man hates it when people argue with him. He does not like it when people suggest other ideas because, in his mind, he thinks he is the Alpha male. This can be a good or a bad thing. He is going to stand his ground until the last moment. He will not let anybody tell him the opposite of his point.
If you are negative towards your Aries man, and you argue with him several times a day, then this will definitely cause a lot of conflict in the relationship. Your Aries man cools off really fast, but he is going to resent the person who crossed him.
So, what you can do is agree with him all the time and praise him a lot. Do not criticize your Aries man because he is going to hate you. Subdue to his will but let him know that you value yourself still.
Work on yourself
Now that you have a lot of time for yourself, use this time to work on yourself and have that major glow up. Use this time to build the character you want to have. Learn how to do makeup, go to the gym, and nourish yourself spiritually.
If the reason for your breakup or distance is because you argue with him a lot, you need to identify what it is in yourself that makes you do that. This is because you are not being patient and considerate enough for him. It can because you never listen to him.
Identify what it is that makes you do that and find out how you can improve that. Find out the thing in your relationship that you do not like. And then, figure out what boundaries you are going to set the next time and show him that you love yourself enough to be in a healthy relationship.
If he has not blocked you yet, then this is the perfect situation to do that. Now that you are focusing on yourself, take the chance to document this. Take a picture of you going to the gym.
And if you have been hanging out with friends, it is the perfect time to post the pictures on Instagram. If he has blocked you, you probably still have mutual friends on your friend list.
If you post negative content on social media and let the world know that you are sad over him leaving you, this will definitely push him away. You need to be able to create an image for yourself that gives off the energy that you are irresistible. This will make him want to get back to you.
Do not contact him
I know how tempting it is to call or text him, especially if it has just been weeks. I get it, you want to pour down all your feelings to him. But you cannot do that. You need to let him know that you are okay being without him and that you can live without him by your side.
With this in mind, know that you need to give him space to think about his decision. Make him regret leaving you by letting him feel that you do not care that he left. It is best to let him make the first move, and just chill and wait.
To make an Aries man regret losing you:
- Do not chase him
- Do not argue with him
- Work on yourself
- Post happy pictures on social media
- Do not contact him