{"id":22154,"date":"2022-12-06T06:27:14","date_gmt":"2022-12-06T12:27:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vekkesind.com\/?p=22154"},"modified":"2023-05-11T01:16:27","modified_gmt":"2023-05-11T07:16:27","slug":"should-i-tell-him-im-dating-other-guys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vekkesind.com\/should-i-tell-him-im-dating-other-guys\/","title":{"rendered":"Should I tell him I\u2019m dating other guys?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Are you the type of girl who wants to keep her options open? Casual dating is relatively common among women in this new era of relationships. If today, nothing goes right, go left and date another guy at night!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are dating other guys, you should consider informing him about it. Before things become serious and intimate, you must be honest about your dating situation to avoid complicated problems. The earlier, the better! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You do not want a third person to spill the tea for you and make the guy you\u2019re dating feel cheated.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are several advantages for you to gain when you tell him that you are dating other guys. However, you must first identify why you would want to do so. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Is it because you want to make him jealous, or do you want him to step up his game? Or do you just want to enjoy your singlehood and date some more men with no strings attached?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your mind is currently clouded and you are still trying to figure out the following steps you should take, this article is for you. I have discussed why, how, and when you should tell him you are going out with other guys. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Should I tell him I\u2019m dating other guys?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Yes, absolutely! If you want to enjoy your singlehood without fear of complications, tell him you are dating other guys. This would help in creating a straightforward and uncomplicated casual dating experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before doing so, you must first know why you should tell him. Some women date several men because they want to keep their options open and search for their perfect pair. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are one of these women, it is ideal to tell your date that you are also going out with other men. This way, you can filter out who among your dates would really want to pursue you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This tactic can also make your date jealous. It can motivate him to step up his game if he is really into you. This will be a real advantage if you see him as your prospective boyfriend and want to intensify your dating relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you only want to have worry-free singlehood and just like to enjoy dating, it is also preferable to let your dates know about your methods. This way, you won\u2019t make them feel disrespected or cheated. You\u2019re not a bad girl, are you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How do I tell him that I\u2019m dating someone else?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You should not tell him outright that you\u2019re dating someone else. You must set the mood first by starting a conversation about dating, relationships, or casual topics. You should also not bring up matters that would make him feel tense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you feel that the air is relaxed, you can respectfully and calmly tell him that you\u2019re dating someone other than him. Remember not to act proud or boastful. After, you have to wait for his response.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Observe his reactions and behavior after spilling the beans. If you think he is uncomfortable, you could talk about how great your dates with him are. Do not talk about your dates with other guys!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do not fear that your date will walk away upon knowing. This way, you\u2019ll know whether or not he\u2019s invested in you. Heads up, girl! You still have more dates to come. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he seems fine after knowing, maybe he\u2019s absolutely fine with it. What matters most is that you made things clear at the start to avoid misunderstandings. The decision of staying or leaving is upon him.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When should I tell him about it?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Before getting too invested or going the extra mile, you should already tell him that you also see other guys. You should not wait for other people to say it to him. This way, you won\u2019t have a hard time sorting out tangled strings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If, for example, you say it after both of you have become intimate or invested already, expect the worst-case scenario. He may react negatively and walk away. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

At that point in time, it is possible that you already caught feelings or established a deep connection with that guy. It won\u2019t be easy letting go! You\u2019ll just find yourself listening to Taylor Swift\u2019s \u201cAll too well\u201d on Spotify. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, if you become honest before things get messier in the first place, it is unlikely that you will get too heartbroken. You have other dates to attend to!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What should I say to him?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

You just have to be honest and say you are dating other guys. You should also state why you are seeing other men so that he won\u2019t get the wrong idea that you are a player. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be truthful and sincere. Tell him that you are involved with someone else other than him. If you think he\u2019s comfortable with it, you may explain the details to him. He deserves a good explanation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some guys will feel betrayed. Thus, you have to let them process it. The real key is to stay moderate. You don\u2019t have to tell him information such as who are the other guys, how you date them goes on, among others. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Again, observe his facial reaction and body language. You have to know whether or not your connection with him will prosper. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What do I need to consider before telling him I\u2019m dating other guys?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Again, know first the reasons why there is a need for you to tell him that you are dating other guys. If you have an established cause, you can manage your expectations and prepare for the next moves you\u2019ll make. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you want to keep your options open but do not want a complicated relationship web, you must tell your date that you are seeing other men. Remember to say it before things get a little intense!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Therefore, another factor to consider is your mutual connection with him. When you are already feeling that your bond is getting a bit stronger, you should inform him of your dating situation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he reacts positively, he may be okay with it, and you will continue to know each other more. It is also likely for them to respond negatively and decide to stop seeing you. Thus, you have to prepare yourself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Saying that you\u2019re dating other guys might also reveal your date\u2019s true intentions. If he is really into you, he will surely pull out all the stops to pursue you. He might also ask you out and become exclusive!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But of course, you have to manage your expectations. Casual dating is not for all. There is also a chance that your date will think that you\u2019re toying with him. This is why you should set the facts straight earlier in your dating journey. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Final Thoughts<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Now that you have reached this article’s end, I hope I have brought clarity to your mind. Casual dating with more than one guy is common nowadays, but there are still men who would find it disrespectful or improper. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Therefore, it is best that they be informed about it to avoid intricate relationships and twisted problems. Women must be vocal because there is nothing wrong with searching for the right man!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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