Considerations before doing a Tarot spread for love<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
If I were someone who believed in luck, I would define it as so: Finding a mutual, soul-bonding love during one’s lifetime. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taking it a step further I would describe love, at least the romantic kind, as an intense passion between two willing individuals, anchored by trust and the strength to grow into a partnership.\u00a0 What would your definition of love be?\u00a0 What kind of love are you interested in?\u00a0 Looking for?\u00a0 Feel worthy of?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I do not ask these questions lightly. Know that I am trying to evoke a response. Get you thinking and re-examining your deep, personal desires. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is important when posing a question to know your feelings regarding the question. Specifically, what answer(s) you are secretly hoping for and your reason(s) behind asking the question(s) itself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As a seeker, not only do you hold responsibility for the question you propose, but you need to assume emotional and psychological responsibility for the answer. You may not hear what you want to hear, and you should be prepared for that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Love is arguably one of life’s greatest mysteries and like all mysteries, adventurers are willing to seek out the answers no matter how difficult. Tarot is just one of the many tools used to find the answers to what we do not know. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is then not surprising that those who turn to tarot for answers usually come searching for answers concerning love, an emotional mystery that runs undercurrent in all our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I wrote another article called, What Tarot cards can tell you about love?<\/a>, that would be a great complement to this article that covers Tarot Spreads for Love. (I will list this article at the bottom with related articles, if you want to read it after.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tarot Reading, 5-Minutes Free!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I’ve recently started working with an online psychic reading company and I’ve received some great feedback. Check it out, then let me know your experience.<\/p>\nClick here to receive a Tarot Reading<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n There are numerous love spreads in tarot to choose from and depending on your perspective, not every spread is going to give you the insight that you are looking for. Tarot spreads should not be approached with the “one size fits all” perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For this article, I experimented with different forms of spreads all with different intentions. Know that I have tested all the tarot spreads that I will be recommending, and these are the ones that have proven to me to be the most accurate. I narrowed it down to the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n When it comes to love, and the answer you seek is simple, you could use the one card method to ask yes or no questions. The one card method is exactly what it sounds like. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Know that this method is best used for direct questions that are straight to the point such as, “does blank like me?”. You then would pull a card, from a 78 card tarot deck, and depending on the card picked it will visually symbolize yes or no. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Know there are cards within the tarot deck that represent the ever irritating “maybe”.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n This method is not useful if you are seeking any further insight into your situation.\u00a0 Though you may pull a second card, known as a “clarifier card” that will potentially bring a little more understanding to the first initial card pulled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For more examples of how to use Tarot cards for Yes & No answers, read our article\u2026 How to use Tarot for Yes or No answers, with 10 examples<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n There is a seven card love compatibility spread that allows you as the seeker to explore your emotional, physical and mental compatibility between you and your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I like this spread as it makes it clear, or clearer, what draws you both together and where your differences lie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Above, is a picture of what my compatibility spread looked like after completion. Going from top to bottom I will explain what each card represents:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Card One \u2013 Your Wants in a\/the Relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Two \u2013Their Wants in a\/the Relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Three \u2013Your Differences as Human Beings<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Four \u2013Your Similarities<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Five \u2013 Your Emotional Compatibility<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Six \u2013 Your Physical Compatibility<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Seven \u2013 Your Mental Compatibility<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe you are already with someone and just need some clarity, or you have someone in mind and would like some insight before making your first move\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n I highly recommend this spread as it gives you a glimpse into who you are, not just the other person, and from there you can determine whether or not you align \u2013 mind, body and spirit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In this image, I’ve drawn 7 cards for my own relationship and provided a brief interpretation of each card in that location.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Card One \u2013 The Eight of Wands \u2013 Your Wants in a\/the Relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Two \u2013 The Seven of Swords \u2013 Their Wants in a\/the Relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Three \u2013 The Tower \u2013 Your Differences as Human Beings<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Four \u2013 Ten of Wands \u2013 Your Similarities<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Five \u2013 Four of Pentacles \u2013 Your Emotional Compatibility<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Six \u2013 the Justice card \u2013 Your Physical Compatibility<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Seven \u2013 the Chariot \u2013 Your Mental Compatibility<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The True Love Tarot Spread is a six-card spread for those of us who dream of finding our “true love, our \u201cMr\u201d or \u201cMs\u201d Charming:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Although this spread is similar to the compatibility spread above, in terms of practicality, it digs a little deeper into the psyche of both persons involved in regards to current feelings and present attitudes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This six card spread is for those of us currently living without that special someone, for those who feel overwhelmed in their hunt and restless in their curiosity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n We may have someone in mind who we hope feels as strongly for us as we do about them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n We may find ourselves spending precious time wondering who our ideal partner will be (and when will they come into our lives!), creating lists of attributes and desires we seek while using our imaginations to tease us with attractive possibilities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This spread is for all my daydreamers and romantics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Manifest Love Tarot Spread is best use when you are tired of waiting patiently and want to take some actions to manifest that special someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I found a spread that was created for the sole purpose of gaining personal insight (source, the Inner Goddess<\/a>). The best thing to do when waiting for that special someone to come along is to make sure you are ready for love when they do arrive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n This spread helps identify your innermost desires and any internal blocks you may have that is potentially keeping love from heading your way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Going from top to bottom I will explain each card\u2019s significance in this five card spread:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Card One – What do you need in a romantic partner<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Two \u2013What can you offer a romantic partner at this point in your life<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Three \u2013 What from the past do you need to let go of<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Four \u2013 What life will look like when you find real love<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Five \u2013What practical thing can you do to attract the right partner into your life right now, in this moment<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card One – The Tower \u2013 What do you need in a romantic partner<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Two \u2013 Four of Wands \u2013 What can you offer a romantic partner at this point in your life<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Three \u2013 Four of Pentacles \u2013 What from the past do you need to let go of<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Four \u2013 Ace of Wands \u2013 What life will look like when you find real love<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Card Five \u2013 Five of Pentacles \u2013 What practical thing can you do to attract the right partner into your life right now, in this moment<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The Self Love Taro Spread is for those who acknowledge that the greatest love story always starts with you. I personally believe that the law of attraction is like gravity, it is always on whether we think about it or not. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Therefore, it’s really important for us to be aware of who we are and to love ourselves for what we are. If we are careless with what we say and what we think, then we won’t attract our true love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Please be gentle with yourself. What I love most about Tarot is how it acts as a mirror for our intuition. And when you ask the right questions\u2026. You can gain significant insight. Self-love is a journey. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Tarot is a useful tool. Your intuition is never wrong. Enjoy getting to know yourselves and I hope you are all lucky enough to fall in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This spread can help you gain insights into you. As I said before, we are always attracting things into our lives. Let’s get insight into what we are doing so that we can consciously create the love that we desire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I wrote an article about manifesting desires. It’s focus is more about manifesting wealth, but that principles are true no matter what you want to manifest. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You can read that article here, “How to unlock your hidden powers and manifest your desires?<\/a>“<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, in looking for answers about our love lives\u2026we are essentially asking questions in hopes of bringing peace and clarity into our lives, ultimately absolving us of all doubts and insecurities regarding the questions we hold within us.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n But how much of our emotional well-being should we invest in the answers we receive after a Tarot reading?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n The answer, as I believe to be true with all tarot readings, lies with us. As a tarot reader, I do not believe that the cards themselves hold magic, but the power of the reading lies with the reader’s own intuition and ability to piece together the stories displayed from the cards. <\/p>\n\n\n\n As the seeker of knowledge, or the querant, it is your responsibility to know yourselves well enough to be able to discern what message is truly meant for your ears and hearts and what you can do without. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It is also up to the seeker to decide what he or she wants to do with the newly presented information and additionally, determine the significance it will hold in their lives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n As always, look towards your own intuition and employ common sense and the golden rule (karma) when it comes to receiving answers about your life \u2013 particularly an emotional, therefore potentially volatile, aspect of your life (otherwise known as your love life).<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you want a little more insight into this question, I wrote an article called, “Should I believe my Tarot reading?<\/a>” I explore believing a reading in more detail here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When it comes to questions about love\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Again, these questions are being posed to provoke thought.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n This is why knowing yourself and your intentions are so important along with having a strong moral code, in this case, the golden rule, to help not only decipher your intentions but to figure out what you’re going to do with any newly gained information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Direct communication is always recommended and encouraged but let’s be honest\u2026 not only is it hard to consistently do, as everyone carries with them a different idea of how to communicate, sometimes you already know the answer to the question you’re asking and just need a second\u2026 third\u2026 fourth opinion. <\/p>\n\n\n\n There will always be a reason why people suss out information in indirect ways instead of confronting or speaking directly to the individual in question.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Just make sure you’re comfortable with your reasoning behind asking the question and willing to accept the consequences of an answer responsibly and respectfully.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you know that you wouldn’t like it if someone sought out answers about you without your knowledge or consent \u2013 golden rule it. (Also read this article, “Can you do a Tarot reading for someone not present?<\/a>“)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Alternatively, know you can always ask questions like “what do I need to work on to let love in my life?” or “what strengths will I bring into my next relationship?”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n These questions still revolve around love but deal specifically with you, the seeker only, with the bonus of the answers becoming helpful in terms of self-development.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Using tarot spreads for love is a fun way to not only explore who and what we have in mind but ourselves as individuals. I hope you have found this guide not only useful in terms of spreads but helpful when it comes to exploring all the themes and ideas you hold within yourselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n I wish you all the best in your curiosity and exploration. May love always be with you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n If you are interested in getting a tarot reading, then as a VekkeSind reader, you can get 5 minutes free<\/a>. Try it now, click here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I\u2019d love to hear about your experience. Please connect with me, after you\u2019ve had a reading\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n
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Simple Answer Tarot Spread for Love<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Love Compatibility Spread<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Example Spread: Love Compatibility Spread Insights & Interpretation<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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The True Love Tarot Spread<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Example Spread: Insight & Interpretation Manifest Love Tarot Spread<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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Self Love Tarot Spread<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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