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What to Do When a Gemini Man Ignores You? (5 Effective Methods!)

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If the man in your life is born between May 21st and June 20th, then he is a Gemini.  If he isn’t paying enough attention to you, then you are going to want to do something to get his attention.  So, what should you do when a Gemini man ignores you?

When a Gemini man ignores you, then you need to ignore him back a little, look your best, be easy-going and get busy with your own projects if you want to make him pay attention to you.  When it comes to a Gemini man, this mercurial sign is drawn to independent women who don’t try to make them jealous.

If you are looking for more in-depth training to deal with your Gemini man, when he ignores you, to have him chase you, to have him desire you, then you should also check out zodiac-based dating expert Anna Kovach’s book Gemini Man Secrets.

Anna’s book is really insightful and covers every you need to know about dating a Gemini man. I’d recommend that you check it out (after you’ve read my article)!

That said, let’s get into the 5 methods to get your Gemini man to stop ignoring you!

Don’t Act Clingy and Desperate

If your Gemini guy is ignoring you, your instinct might be to blow up his phone with call and text messages until he responds to you.

This approach might work for some signs, but it will have the opposite of your desired effect on a Gemini man.

The more desperate and clingier you appear, the more likely he is to pull further away until you can’t get in touch with him at all.

Gemini men value their independence and freedom, and they are attracted to women who don’t need constant contact or reassurance from them.

Some signs can’t be left alone for long and will move on quickly if you ignore them back. Although Gemini men love attention, they are intrigued by a mysterious woman even more.

As much as you may be tempted to reach out to him repeatedly to get his attention, you are better off giving a Gemini guy a little taste of his own medicine.

If he has been ignoring you for several days and then suddenly starts contacting you again, make him sweat a little. Don’t respond to him right away and don’t jump at the opportunity to make plans with him.

Be Busy

Some signs want to be the center of their partner’s universe and like doing everything together. Gemini does not fall into this category.

If your Gemini man has been ignoring you, don’t reward his bad behavior by eagerly jumping at the chance to talk to him when he eventually contacts you.

A Gemini guy doesn’t want a woman who waits around for him because he prefers someone dynamic with plenty of projects of her own.

Geminis are prone to stress and anxiety because they overbook themselves. A Gemini man always has a million plans and projects going on at once, and he appreciates a busy woman who understands this about him.

This means that a Gemini man is actually more attracted to you when you are a little too busy for him, too.

Don’t cancel your plans to see him or say yes to the first time and day he suggests spending time together. Instead, keep your other plans and tell him the date that works best for you.

If you really want to drive him crazy, you shouldn’t tell him what your other plans are, either. Let him wonder if you are on a date with another man (but don’t explicitly tell him that you are dating anyone else – you don’t want to make him jealous, just curious).

What are your chances with your Gemini man?

Before I we review a bunch of strategies and actions you can take with your Gemini man, it might be a good time to check just how compatible you are with him!

Anna Kovach created a fun quiz to determine your compatibility with your Gemini man. There are 9 easy questions! Start The Quiz!

Dress Stylishly

Geminis are very fashion-forward and stylish. They have a unique and often eccentric taste in clothing and are always up-to-date on the latest trends.

If you are trying to spot the Gemini in the room, look for the guy wearing a quirky hat, a patterned vest, or a sharp suit when everyone else is in jeans.

Geminis place a lot of emphasis on appearance, so a Gemini guy can’t help but be drawn to a woman with a captivating sense of style.

A Gemini man is also tidy and well-groomed, and he appreciates a woman who is the same. If you want to grab your Gemini guy’s attention, make sure you are clean and fresh, and spend a little extra time doing your hair and makeup.

Some signs are conservative and prefer an understated fashion style, but Geminis are never afraid to be bold with their sartorial choices.

If you want your Gemini man to stop ignoring you, wear neon colors, bold makeup, or anything that makes you stand out from the crowd. He won’t be able to keep his eyes off of you if your look demands attention.

The most important thing is to be comfortable and confident around your Gemini guy. If you don’t like sky-high heels, opt for flats instead. When you feel good about what you are wearing, it shows. It’s more important to

He appreciates a self-confident woman who wears what she likes and takes care of herself, so show him that you are his type with your style selections.

Be Unique and Exciting

Geminis are intellectually curious and they are drawn to people who can teach them new things.

Geminis also get bored rather easily, so a Gemini guy won’t settle for someone who sticks to a dull routine and never tries anything new.

A Gemini man wants a woman who lives life to the fullest and embraces new experiences. If you want to get your Gemini man’s attention, show him that you love adventure and adapt well to change.

Not only will engaging in all of these fun activities show your Gemini man how exciting your life is without him, but it will also help you stay distracted and expand your social circle. You might find that you are so happy without your Gemini guy that you don’t care he’s ignoring you anymore. 

You may think this is difficult to do when a Gemini is ignoring you, but there are still plenty of ways to show him how exciting you are.

For example, you can post photos of your recent adventures all over social media. If you went on a road trip, bungee-jumping, or to the hot new restaurant in town, make sure you post it online where he might see it.

Tell all of your mutual friends about your interesting plans and encourage them to mention them to your Gemini crush.

When he does start paying attention to you again, go out of your way to point out all the cool experiences you have been having to show him how much fun you are.

Don’t Try to Make Him Jealous

When your Gemini guy ignores you, you might be tempted to make him jealous to grab his attention and show him that he’s not the only man in the world.

But if you make your Gemini crush jealous, and especially if he can tell that you are intentionally trying to hurt him, he will only become less interested in you.

You should show off how busy and exciting your life is, and perhaps even make him a little curious about whether or not you are dating someone else, but never flaunt your relationships with other men.

Even if you succeed in making your aloof Gemini guy jealous, it won’t inspire him to suddenly start returning your calls. Instead, he will think that you have moved on from him, and he won’t become motivated to compete for you.

And if he figures out that you deliberately tried to toy with his emotions, he will be disgusted by your deception and certainly won’t want to contact you.

There are plenty of ways to get a Gemini man to stop ignoring you without resorting to trying to make him jealous. Don’t waste your time trying to spark his envy because it won’t work and you will only push him further away from you.

As I mentioned at the beginning of this article, check out Anna Kovach’s book, Gemini Man Secrets, for more in-depth training for women who want a Gemini man to stop ignoring her, but to chase and desire her instead.

Or try her quiz, take Anna’s Relationship Compatibility Quiz for specific insights into your relationship compatibility.

Whan a Gemini man ignores you, final thoughts…

If you want to get a Gemini man to stop ignoring you, you have to understand the typical traits of his zodiac sign. The more you know about his star sign, the more you will learn about his personality characteristics and behaviors.

To get a Gemini man’s attention, you need to be busy, ignore him back, and always look your best. Don’t try to make him jealous, be easy-going, and make sure he knows how exciting your life is.

Once your Gemini guy sees how gracefully you react to him ignoring you, he will know that you are his ideal partner and will start contacting you again.

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