Sagittarius Woman In Marriage, What It’s Like

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The Sagittarius woman can bring fun in any situation. She could be chill or she could be wildly adventurous. She constantly searches for the meaning of life through her experiences. She is a social butterfly but keeps it honest. She knows how to be authentic and still remain diplomatic in a group.

The Sagittarius woman in marriage is a challenge for those who are looking for a conservative and traditional wife. The Sagittarius wife is spontaneous and maybe too attached to her freedom to fully dedicate herself to domestic matters. She would still need a life of her own outside of the marriage.

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The Sagittarius woman in courtship

The freedom-loving Sagittarius woman can never be truly tied to a single relationship.

She needs to have a life outside of romance. She would wish to see the world and learn about different cultures. She would enjoy talking to strangers just to hear their stories and wouldn’t mind having deep conversations with them.

Though her love of freedom is not one-sided. She would also respect her partner’s need for independence and space. This is the reason many would recommend Aries to pair with Sagittarius because of their self-reliance.

They also tend not to shower Sagittarius with clinginess which can be suffocating for the Sagittarius woman.

When a Sagittarius woman does fall in love, she is smitten and gives her all. Suddenly, she makes you a part of her plans, she makes more time for you. She may introduce you to her group of friends and invite you to her inner world.

When she dates you she would take you into places you might have never visited and make you do things you haven’t. She is not the type to enjoy routines. She looks to stimulate and detest boredom. If you want to win her heart, do not tie her down or rush her to decide on things.

As a deeply-passionate woman, she may also come across as aggressive but it is because she is just intense.

Maybe it is true when she does get angry, she can be explosive but they rarely hold a grudge. As a lover, she is fiercely protective and she makes for a best friend type of love that will be with you for better and for worse.

Use fractionation to connect with her emotionally…

At this point, I want to talk about fractionation… What is fractionation you ask… Fractionation is like putting a woman on an emotional rollercoaster. It’s a sequence of repeated, intensifying cycles of emotional ups and downs…

You give her an emotional high, then an emotional low, etc. And, it takes your flirting to the next level!

Women are emotional “creatures” and really connect with movies, activities, and men who satisfy their emotional needs. For her, the emotional ride that fractionation creates is absolutely addicting!

For instance, you can send one-sentence texts using fractionation, in one of these 2 formats:

express your approval of one of her bad qualities… or,
express disapproval of one of her good qualities…

For example, “I love how you can be so boring.” or “I’m disgusted by your good manners.”

Statements like this will stop her in her tracks and she’ll reply to your texts asking what you mean.

This is just a quick example… Click here to read more details about fractionation in the Shogun Method.

OK, let’s look at marriage with a Sagittarius woman…

Marriage with a Sagittarius woman

The Sagittarius wife can be demanding

The key to understanding the Sagittarius wife is that the more you try to control her and tell her what to do, the more she is repulsed and thirsty for her freedom. It is better to act through reverse psychology wherein you allow her some space and let her miss you.

She is not the homebody’s wife, the exception, of course, is if there are enough passionate hobbies to keep her in one place but most of the time, she always has to be somewhere else. The Sagittarius wife looks for spontaneity to keep her thrilled. Boredom is a terrible mood for her to be in.

It is better if the Sagittarius wife has her own career or business to keep her happy. Making her a domestic wife is almost cruel to her authentic self. There is a saying, isolation is painful to the youth but sweet in mature years, which would describe her well.

The Sagittarius wife needs your patience and understanding

The Sagittarius wife is faithful. It is true that they get an image of being commitment-phobic but it doesn’t mean it is impossible. The thing is marriage just looks like a cage and if there’s the biggest fear in her it would be losing her freedom and choices.

If you are somehow able to balance her love of freedom and being able to show her that it can be done, then just give her some time to get accustomed to it. As she is usually diplomatic, she will be able to meet you halfway.

The Sagittarius wife handles her relationships very well and knows how to compromise to make everyone happy.

The Sagittarius wife does not want to be told how to act or what to do

Don’t be a killjoy, which is something she might feel If she is told that she should act a certain way.

The Sagittarius wife doesn’t just respect her freedom, she also respects other people’s choices. In fact, they have one of the biggest hearts in the zodiac. They are very accepting of people from different backgrounds and histories.

If there are things she needs to change, it would be better to ask her gently than to ridicule her. A secret to making her feel at ease while encouraging her is through the tone of voice. Don’t be too authoritative and ask from a gentle heart.

Remember, the more you use force on your Sagittarius wife, the more she loses her will to even try and listen.

The Sagittarius wife will show her love through action

One of the most forgotten traits of the Sagittarius wife is her capacity to sacrifice. In mythology, she is the centaur called Chiron. In the story’s universe, centaurs were expected to be warriors in battle but Chiron was rejected by his own father and was sent to someone else. This person then taught Chiron all he knew and became a teacher.

In that sense, she already was meant to be someone who defies society’s expectations but still have good intentions.

Chiron was a student hungry for knowledge and so is the Sagittarius wife. During Chiron’s time in exchanging his knowledge with a student then, Hercules-the Greek god that inspired the Disney film, a misplaced arrow covered with poison struck him.

He could only be freed from the pain of the poison if he chooses to die. Chiron gave up his immortality in order to free another person. There will be times that you may not understand what your Sagittarius wife is doing, but she usually does it with her husband and family in mind.

If she had any love language, it would be acts of service. Maybe even quality time.

The Sagittarius wife would be emotionally open to you and since she is honest, she makes communication easier. She might seem like she is a tough cookie, but like the poison from Chiron’s story, she just hides it very well until she can’t, and then she explodes in bursts.

The Sagittarius wife learns how to plan with you in it

There is a lot of conversation in forums on how many times they dated a Sagittarius and it felt like a horror story for earth signs. It is because the Sagittarius wife wants to enjoy the moment. Things will come to pass anyway, so why should she worry?

That is basically her outlook in life but when she loves her man and family, she will open up on how she can contribute to the household.

Maybe she will be open to taking an extra job so the family can have funds to renovate an area of the home. She is thoughtful. She would want to make it easier for you. It is also possible she may not rush to have kids.

The Sagittarius wife is very supportive and does love unconditionally. That means she doesn’t count all the things she has done for you and she does it because she simply wants to. She will be concerned about your happiness and will compromise just to make sure of it.

The Sagittarius wife remains romantic even when married

The Sagittarius wife is playful. She is like a cherry on top or a forbidden treat. She might still ask for adventurous dates even though you have tied the knot already. She would be the type to plot a hotel getaway for just the two of you or maybe a camping activity somewhere in the woods to make it exciting.

She can be someone who would surprise you with gifts. This doesn’t mean she is trying to manipulate you. In fact, of all zodiac signs, Sagittarius dislikes mind games and would prefer if people are just straight to the point.

Even if you have already married, she will still have her playful flirting with you. She will remain affectionate and very touchy. She is always available to the person she loves and actually shows that instead of just plain empty words.

She will be someone who would listen to you and have deep conversations with you. However, she will not be the best comforter out there.

She can feel awkward with being able to calm you down but for sure, she is able to imagine what it’s like to be in your shoes when you feel down. She is just not able to express it but it does not mean she wishes to make you feel invalidated.

Most of the time she can be misunderstood because of her tendency to remain optimistic at all times.

Some may consider it a trait of hers to be insensitive. The Sagittarius wife may seem like she doesn’t think a lot because she refuses to worry but she is actually a deep thinker and is somewhat always searching for the greater meaning and purpose of life.

The Sagittarius wife involves you in the things she likes

As mentioned, they like to keep busy and dislike being bored. Something always has to stimulate the Sagittarius wife, whether it is a hobby or a new place to visit. Though she would always want to introduce you to those hobbies or new friends she may meet.

Whatever she’s interested in, say, if it’s comic books, she will tell you all that she knows and describe her favorite character, and she’ll invite you to watch the films with her.

The Sagittarius wife would do the same and if you are open to sharing your passions, she will show interest and make an effort to understand it.

It’s her form of love language because, in reality, she doesn’t even need a companion to do the things she likes, it’s basically a subtle form of her clinginess even if she feels like not admitting that.

Marriage to a Sagittarius woman, in a nutshell

The Sagittarius woman in marriage makes a faithful, fun, and spontaneous partnership. She is not the classic domestic wife. In fact, she would rather skip the chores, and it may be suggestive to have her own business or career to keep busy with.

She is an explorer and forever a student. She likes to learn about people’s stories and their backgrounds. The Sagittarius wife enjoys deep conversations and spending time with the man she chose.

It is true that her sign is not famed for commitment, but it doesn’t mean she is incapable. If she does see you as the one meant for her, she is capable of great sacrifice and will put your happiness above hers.

When you marry a Sagittarius wife, you marry a best friend and your lover. She is forever youthful in the way she views the world. Always positive and maybe rebellious because she does not want to be constrained.

Remember to give her space even if you are together, also, the more you force a Sagittarius wife, the more she would retaliate. A gentle word and an affectionate request are enough to make her understand what you want her to do. She is willing to compromise especially if it’s for the person she loves the most.