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How To Win An Aquarius Man’s Heart? (7 Tips)

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To win over the heart of an Aquarius man is not easy, this detached and icy sign can take a while to open up his heart to someone, however, don’t fret! As we’re here to tell you tips and tricks on how to win over the heart of an Aquarius man!

To win an Aquarius man’s heart you need to match his level of unusualness and quirkiness, because this guy is a natural oddball, you may find him doing some eccentric hobbies or having unusual passions, don’t be weirded out or be intimidated, instead of matching his energy and be fun while having his company!

The Aquarius man is a trendsetter, the revolter, this unique urge to be different and change the world makes this man the most humanitarian sign out of all the zodiac, incredibly eccentric due to his deep insight and intelligence, this man is a rebel with or without a cause…

Ok, this might sound simple enough… But, we’ve just scratched the surface…

If you are looking for in-depth training to win the heart of your Aquarius man, then check out zodiac-based relationship expert, Anna Kovach’s book Aquarius Man Secrets (click here).

With the details in Anna’s book, your Aquarius man will be like putty in your hands… I’d recommend that you check it out (after you’ve read my article)!

That said, let’s first take a look at what makes a Scorpio man special… then, we can review the ways to win his heart!

What makes Aquarius men special?

Take note that these things apply to men born with their Sun in Aquarius as well as men with plenty of Aquarius placements in their birth chart (Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Ascendant).

The Aquarius man is a game-changer! Because he is ruled by Uranus, his need for upheaval knows no bounds, he demands freedom and independence at all costs no matter how shallow it might be!

Because he is ruled by Uranus, the forceful amount of energy of this planet can give your Aquarius man an independent and detached aura, he doesn’t need anyone to survive, he just really doesn’t care about anyone or anyone’s opinions, he lives simply to feel freedom and express it.

That’s what makes an Aquarius man special in the first place, his urge for freedom makes him a great humanitarian, his objective point of view and intelligence can spark others to change too, he is innovative and has a thing for technology, he knows about social issues because he knows it impacts not just him but the society as a whole.                                                                                

On the bright side, he is wise, self-sufficient, advanced in terms of thinking and handling his emotions, he is exceptional and optimistic, his unique because he doesn’t go with the trends, he goes with whatever things he feels like it.

Because Air is his elemental sign, he thrives in communicating and sharing each other’s thoughts and ideas, he thrives in a world where there is the free exchange of information, unlike Gemini who is chaotic, and Libra who can be sensitive and conforming to the whims and wishes of others, Aquarius doesn’t care.

This is what makes an Aquarius man so loveable in the first place, he is calm and friendly, but he takes no flying asses from other people, he lives by his own rules and he is the only one who can change them.

The Aquarius man is a truly wonderful person, in love he is passionate and wild, spontaneous and unpredictable to his lover, as a friend he is engaging and supportive but doesn’t get too comfortable as this man truly is a badass!

An Aries man is a truly dynamic person who means well to his actions, no matter how insensitive he might appear to be, he’s the always one to lead and take action and he does not do this to make himself proud, he genuinely believes he can take the lead and be the man of action.

That’s what makes an Aquarius man special…

What are your chances with an Aquarius man?

Before we get into how to win your Aquarius man’s heart, it’s probably a good idea to check how compatible you are with him…

Take this quiz, created by Anna Kovach, it’s just 9 quick questions and you’ll get real insights into your compatibility based on his sign and yours. Click here to Start The Quiz!

How to win your Aquarius Man’s heart?

Show your unique style and personality

To win him over, you must show to him that you are nonconforming, show off your unique style and energy, show off that you’re different, be friendly and offbeat, and show him that you’re having a good time with everybody, not just him.

By showing him that you’re detached and independent, that you don’t need him to have a good time, you’re building attraction, surely in no time he will fall for you like no other!

Talk about unusual stuff

Occult, aliens, weird conspiracy theories, anything under the sun, be sure to be able to fully have a scope of topics that you can talk to him, be sure to talk to him about topics that can mentally stimulate his mind, the ones that can truly make him think and wonder.

By doing these you’re acquiring his friendship and at the same time attraction, express your most authentic self to him and he’ll surely fall for you in no time!

Be spontaneous!

Travel, explore different social settings with him, travel with him, by doing these things you’re automatically making yourself a suitable long-term partner to him!

With that said, it is best to tell him how you feel, no filters necessary, whether it’s late at night drives, walk-ins at parks or museums, you must be spontaneous as possible!

Be active in social changes 

Be active in social issues, this makes him know that you’re relevant and that you care enough to change the world, actively participate in social groups that actively support a cause, letting him know that you are there will certainly make him fall in love with you like no other!

Show him your strong and assertive side

There’s nothing more attractive to an Aquarius man than a Strong Independent woman!

Show him your feisty side, be bold and fierce, do not be afraid to take risks, be open-minded and blunt as much as possible, don’t be afraid to be daring in your style of choice, the more fearless you are the more attractive you are to him!

Get romantic and affectionate in an unusual way…

Engage in sensual roleplay ideas, your Aquarius man is wild and freaky in bed, he can be extremely experimental, match his energy and turn him on by being one, be thoughtful and dedicated when expressing your love to him.

Tell them you love him often, kiss him in many ways, be expressive, and don’t be afraid to say what’s going on in your mind, he’ll appreciate it more if you’re more outspoken to him.

Express yourself with no filters

When you feel sad, express your sadness genuinely, whatever you feel, be as open to him as possible, don’t be afraid to show your most inner self because he will accept it no matter what, any kind of self-expression is attractive to your Aquarius man.

Show him what you love, show him the things that please you, tell him your favorite songs you sing in the shower, tell him some of your funniest embarrassing stories, the more genuine you are to him the more he’ll love you.

Get more details about your Aquarius man!

Now that you can clearly identify the ways to win your Aquarius man’s heart… You should now check out Anna Kovach’s book Aquarius Man Secrets.

She can give you an exact blueprint to win over your Aquarius man…

Win an Aquarius Man’s quirky, quirky, and deeply intellectual heart, final thoughts…

Winning an Aquarius man’s heart is a surefire way to make your life more spontaneous and dynamic! He is unpredictable but once he gets attached he gets obsessive for life!

Loving and caring especially to those he feels are the right ones to be loved, deeply sympathetic to his surroundings, your Aquarius man’s independent and progressive heart is not for those who are weak.

Applying some of the things mentioned above to strengthen the relationship you have with your Aquarius man is a surefire way to keep the relationship good and long, remember that this applies to men with the sun in Aquarius or men with plenty of heavy Aquarius placements in their birth chart.

For more info about the other zodiac signs click the link down below!