If your relationship with a man born between May 21st and June 20th, he’s a Gemini man. If he’s your ex and you want him to miss you then you must try this… to show him what he is missing.
When you want to make a Gemini man miss you after a breakup, you need to be easy-going, stay busy, and tell him that you miss him. Don’t try to make him jealous, don’t get emotional, and don’t be needy.
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Give Him Space
Gemini men are very independent, and they don’t want to date a woman who is too needy. If you act desperate or clingy after a breakup, your Gemini man won’t miss you or want to come back to you.
Instead, he will feel relieved that he escaped someone so demanding who makes him feel suffocated.
You might be tempted to ask him to hang out, call him or send him lots of text messages, or spend lots of time with your mutual friends in hopes that you will run into your Gemini ex. But when it comes to a Gemini guy, the best way to make him miss you is to give him space.
You broke up for a reason, and he needs to see what his life is like without you. He can’t miss you if you are always around or always available to him.
He will also miss you more when he has to wonder what you are doing without him. If you tell him every little detail or are in constant communication with him, there will be no room for mystery or curiosity.
With a Gemini guy, it’s always best to leave him wanting more. Pull back and be a little mysterious if you want to stay on your Gemini ex’s mind.
Live Your Best Life
A Gemini man is unimpressed by a woman with a dull, boring life. He loves adrenaline, the excitement of new experiences, and getting out of his routine.
If you want your Gemini ex to pine for you, you have to show him you are busy living your best life without him.
The goal isn’t to make your Gemini man jealous, as that might only push him away. The point is to show him that you have an exciting and fulfilling life without him and that you don’t need him to have a good time.
He will also see that you are doing the types of activities he loves to do, and he will wish you were still together so he could do them with you.
So, how can you let your Gemini ex know that you are living your best life?
The most important thing is to stay busy, work hard, and make lots of fun plans with friends. The more projects and activities you do, the more likely it is that your Gemini ex will hear about it.
Post photos of everything you are doing on social media and be active on multiple online platforms.
Every zodiac sign has a ruling heavenly body that reveals something important about that sign’s personality. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, information, and technology.
This tells us that typical Geminis are obsessed with social media, so if you post photos of yourself living your best life online, your Gemini ex will probably see them.
You should also let all your mutual friends know how well you are doing so they know what to tell your Gemini ex if he asks about you.
If you are still on good terms and talk with your Gemini guy, don’t hold back from telling him all of the cool things you have been doing.
You don’t need to brag or rub it in his face, but you can certainly tell him how busy you have been with work, your friends, and trying new things.
Don’t Make Him Jealous
Geminis get jealous in relationships, although they aren’t as jealous as many other signs. They don’t, however, get jealous when it comes to their exes, and they are never impressed when someone deliberately tries to make them feel envious.
As tempting as it may be to use another guy to make your ex jealous, this isn’t an effective way to make a Gemini miss you.
If you brag about all the dates you’ve been going on, flirt with someone else in front of him, post photos of another man online, or do anything else to try to make your Gemini ex jealous, it won’t make him miss you.
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He will either assume you have moved on and that he should, too, or he will realize that you are trying to manipulate him and hurt his feelings. Either way, he won’t want to pick up the phone and call you.
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Tell Him That You Miss Him
If you want your Gemini ex to miss you because you feel scorned and want revenge, then there is no need to tell him that you miss him. But if you want to make your Gemini ex miss you because you are hoping for a reconciliation, you should open up and tell him how you feel.
The chance of rejection is terrifying but consider it this way: you have already broken up with him, so it’s not like you can lose him again. You really don’t have anything to lose by telling him that you miss him.
This doesn’t mean that you should pressure him to get back together or act like you are miserable without him. On the contrary, it’s important to give him space and to show him that you have a fabulous life, even when he’s not in it.
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But as a zodiac sign ruled by the planet of communication, Geminis appreciate people who are honest and direct.
By telling him how you feel, you show him that you are being honest and letting your guard down. It takes a strong person to be vulnerable, and he should appreciate that.
It also proves that you aren’t playing mind games or trying to get back at him in any way. If you are trying to make him miss you because you are hoping for a reconciliation, be forthcoming and truthful rather than manipulative and deceitful.
Geminis are prone to stress and anxiety because they spread themselves too thin. They are very energetic, but they tend to over-commit and overextend themselves until they are exhausted.
Geminis are also very indecisive and require patient partners who can help them work through difficult decisions. For these reasons, a Gemini man requires a partner who is even-tempered and easy-going.
If you want to make your Gemini ex miss you, prove to him how relaxed and laid-back you are.
Don’t pressure him to get back together and don’t act high-strung. If you are constantly stressed out and bringing more stress into his life, who can blame your Gemini guy if he runs in the opposite direction?
A Gemini man is attracted to an easy-going woman who helps balance out his anxious nature. If you can remind him that you are exactly the type of girl he wants and needs, he is sure to miss you.
Don’t Get Emotional
Every zodiac sign belongs to one of four natural elements: earth, fire, water, or air. The twelve zodiac signs are distributed evenly amongst the four elements, so there are three signs per element.
The element a sign belongs to tells us a great deal about how that sign behaves and communicates. For example, water signs are highly emotional and intuitive, while fire signs are fierce and passionate.
Gemini is an air sign, and a typical air sign quality is discomfort with negative emotions. They are drawn to positive, upbeat people, and they are uncomfortable with tears or angry shouting.
If you want your Gemini ex to miss you, don’t try to appeal to his emotions, and don’t become dramatic and emotional, either.
You should never try to guilt a Gemini man into missing you, and don’t think that crying or screaming at him is going to make him yearn for you.
Instead, stay cool, calm, and collected, and your Gemini guy will miss how rational and level-headed you are.
If you are second-guessing your breakup with a Gemini man, you might want to make him miss you. You could be trying to get revenge on him for a bad breakup, or you might be hoping that he will want to take you back.
No matter what your motivation is, you can show your Gemini ex what he’s missing by staying busy, keeping your emotions under control, and being laid-back. You should never try to make him jealous or act clingy, which will only push him further away.
When you show your Gemini ex that you are the perfect girl for him, he won’t be able to help but miss you and feel regret for what he lost.
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