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How To Attract A Libra Woman

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Libra is the union part of the Zodiac wheel where the air element is fixed, which means that communication and co-operation are a must now. The spark of spirit imagined in Aries, materialized in Taurus, spread in Gemini, rooted in Cancer, exploded with joy in Leo, and brought to realistic actions in Virgo, is now uniting in the sign of Libra.

A Libra woman is receptive, sensual, and diplomatic. And to attract a Libra woman, you will have to act like a strong-minded person, who is not afraid to take initiative, plan in life, and lead. She will find irresistible those types of personalities because they will have opposing traits and be tempting for her soul. 

Is a Libra woman indecisive or lazy?

The Libra woman can be indecisive only if two options look equally good or lucrative, and she is the true master when it comes to the estimation of any situation from all perspectives. This is the main reason she seems slow or lazy, but she is certainly way smarter than she appears to be.

Throughout all her life, a Libra woman has to fight against her sensitivity, because every, even a small failure affects her, which she should not take so seriously.

She is also very sensitive to criticism, injustice, carelessness, and accidental incidents, turning them into big problems.

Her fine nature is often misunderstood by the environment because she is not created for ordinary physical and repetitive work, but for trade, finance, or any form of artistic expression.

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Although she has a mild outlook, she can be decisive when it comes to her interests and her independence, especially financial independence.

When it comes to the proper choice of her romantic partner, the placements of her natal Mars and Venus will play the major roles. Her natal Mars could be positioned anywhere in the chart, but her Venus could be in Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, or Sagittarius. And this will be the determining factor in how she will perceive love and pleasure in general.

If her Venus is in Leo, she will expect wining and dining types of dates and luxurious expressions of affection. If her Venus is in Virgo, then she will fall for the practical guys who know how to save and have a realistic approach to life.

If Venus for Libra woman is in her sign, Libra, then she will value small, but wonderfully romantic gestures and polite communication. If the planet of love and values is placed in Scorpio in her natal chart, she will be materialistic in the sense that she will expect financial safety coming along with love.

If her natal Venus is in the sign of Sagittarius, then she will adore academic, but witty and adventurous types of personalities.

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What are the main traits of a Libra woman?

Balancing between two options, two worlds of existence, two styles, or anything else, is the primary trait of a Libra woman. She is not in the state of harmony, as many might think, but in the state of constant improvement and adjustment to her environment, and mostly to her partner.

A Libra woman knows what she is looking for in a partner and will not give up on her dreams of marital happiness for a long time.

He can highly value people and make others happy, but he can also rebel fiercely if someone tries to “abuse” or exploit her. She usually sees clearly that the whole world is in conflict with her principles of perfect order.

Although she is talented for every form of aesthetics, a Libra woman can be very impractical, periodically suffer from extravagance, and in those special moments, she can show surprising courage, and even make some mistakes that she will remember for a long time and object on to herself for a prolonged time.

A Libra woman is always ready to sacrifice herself for her family as well as for her parents. Her partner is the most important figure in her life, and if she is married and has children, then she takes a friendly attitude towards them.

She easily makes friends, she is also communicative and very successful in building a social network.

On the other hand, she often knows how to be very casual, spoiled, capricious, and used to have every wish fulfilled instantly.

This is why she can easily create funny or unpleasant situations, stubbornly proving that she is right.

How to pursue a Libra woman?

A Libra woman will be very sensitive when it comes to those “traditional” ways of pursuing, meaning that she will fall for the idea of a knight in shining armor who will pick up her handkerchief and protect her from the dragon. Play on the card of hero and you will never miss with her.

In terms of astrology, the male principle in a female chart will be seen through the planet Mars, and this is especially the case with the Libra woman whose area of marriage is placed in the sign of Aries, ruled by Mars.

But the problem is that Mars can be positioned anywhere in her natal chart and this positioning will surely give him different characteristics.

On the other hand, Mars is Mars, this planet will keep its basic traits wherever it is in the Zodiac wheel. This generally means that you have to be brave and open-minded when approaching her, but also to be romantic and polite. Sounds complicated, but is really not so.

You have to also take into consideration where her natal Venus is because this planet will determine how her taste in love will exactly look like.

A Libra woman will love nice dates without much surprising or too exciting moments, interesting long conversations, and all those little, but so meaningful signs of affection, like bringing her flowers, holding the door for her, helping her with the coat, and so on.

How to attract the younger Libra woman

If you want to attract a younger Libra girl you shouldn’t ever play the game “Oh, poor me, I’m wounded, lost, and I can’t make my mind about love”. This will completely repel her. And on the contrary, you have to be a powerful, but traditional and fearless hero she will quickly start to adore.

In a Libra girl’s natal chart, her ideal partner is seen from the sign of Aries. And this sign is ruled by the fiery Mars.

She will dream about someone who is crazy brave, and someone who spends their days training martial arts or doing military service. Men in uniforms are simply irresistible for her.

Also, this ideal partner for Libra girl will be someone with a lighter complexion, no matter to which nationality or race this person belongs.

Her ideal Aries partner will be very honorable, traditional and treat her like a real lady, but when they are alone, he will become a “bad boy” and fulfill all of her dirty, little sexual desires. And to this particular person, she will give her complete body and soul, letting him take the lead and creating their happily ever after.

How to attract a mature Libra woman

To attract a mature Libra woman, you will have to become intellectually superior and to amaze her with your unique ideas and ideals of how this world and its future should look like. She will want someone who will be her genuine friend, more than just a lover, and someone she can trust.

If a mature Libra woman is alone, this can only mean two things. Either she had a bad marriage or committed relationship, and from which she needed a long time to heal from and learn to glow again, or, she was really too nitpicky and no one was able to fit into her high standards.

In both cases, your task to win her heart won’t be so simple and this time you shouldn’t act as her natal Mars showing bravery or similar traits because she became disappointed or tired of those types of people a long time ago.

The best strategy to win her heart will be to unlock her Aquarius and Gemini houses which means that communication must be your number one weapon of seduction.

The sign of Aquarius for Libra woman is the place of her talents, joy, and romantic love. And the sign of Gemini is the area of higher knowledge and spirituality.

Also in western astrology, Gemini, which is her natural ninth horoscope house will show her second marriage or her second committed and long-lasting relationship if you are interested to fit in one of those places.

In general, you should have unusual ideas, be humble and happy with little, have a strong sense of duty toward society, and even be a mover or shaker in your industry.

On the other side, you have to position them as her sibling or her best friend, and only then she will feel free enough to open her heart again and let you enter.

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