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7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Scorpio Man

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Sometimes known to be the sexiest man in the zodiac, you may be a little intimidated to flirt with him. You might think that he is too out of your league. However, you also want him all to yourself. And so, here are some tips to flirt with a Scorpio man.

To effectively flirt with a Scorpio man, you need to ask him deep questions that he will think his answers through. Compliment how he explains things. Send text messages with double meanings. Give your full attention to him. Stay mysterious and do not reveal everything right away. Lastly, stare at him.

Ok, this might sound simple enough… But, we’ve just scratched the surface…

If you are looking for in-depth training to understand and flirt effectively with your Scorpio man, then check out zodiac-based relationship expert, Anna Kovach’s book Scorpio Man Secrets (click here).

With the details in Anna’s book, your Scorpio man will be like putty in your hands… I’d recommend that you check it out (after you’ve read my article)!

That said, let’s first take a look at his flirting style… then, we can review the ways to flirt with him!

Understanding a Scorpio Man’s Flirting Style

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Scorpio Man

A lot of people who are very much into Astrology know that the stare of a Scorpio man is his most common way to flirt. If a Scorpio man finds you highly attractive, he just cannot help himself but stare. It is as if you are a creature that he sees in a jungle that he finds interesting and intriguing.

He finds it as beautiful that he just wants to stare at it and observe it. He wants to see its intricacies, and he wants to learn about you. He is going to stare at you intensely like a creep. Yes, this can be a little odd and a very creepy way of flirting, but it is something that is very unique to a Scorpio man. The least you can do is stare back and smile at him because he is definitely admiring your beauty.

He also flirts by asking you questions about yourself. If you still haven’t heard, your Scorpio man is the detective of the Zodiac. He is ruled by the planets, Pluto and Mars. First off, Pluto rules the subconscious and what lies behind the surface.

This kind of energy makes the Scorpio man seek to get the truth of every situation. He also wants to know your deepest and darkest fears and desires.

The planet Mars represents how we express our raw energy, and this is why a Scorpio man is bold enough to ask questions to you. He is not afraid to ask deep, dark, and creepy questions. Again, this is because he wants to know everything about you.

He wants you to tell him everything because he wants to figure you out. He also wants to figure out whether you are worth his time and energy.

Lastly, when a Scorpio man flirts, he is a little touchy-feely. He may caress you and rub your back. It is as if you are something he wants to possess and all to himself. When in public, he likes to let everyone in the vicinity know that you are his and he is yours.

This is because if he sees something or someone that he wants, he wants it. He is really good at controlling their emotions and sometimes he does not even realize it.

What are your chances with a Scorpio man?

Before we get into the ways to flirt with a Scorpio man, it’s probably a good idea to check how compatible you are with him…

Take this quiz, created by Anna Kovach, it’s just 9 quick questions and you’ll get real insights into your compatibility based on his sign and yours. Click here to Start The Quiz!

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Scorpio Man

Ask him questions

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Scorpio Man

As I have said earlier, your Scorpio man loves to dig deep into things. To flirt, you can ask questions about him. And these questions should not be something that can be answered with one-word answers.

You need to ask questions that are not surface-level. You need to ask questions that your Scorpio man can dig deep for answers to.

For example, if he tells something about a decision he made. Ask him why he has done that and what factors did he consider coming up with a decision like that. Ask him what he thinks the meaning of the situation is.

Basically, just ask him second-level questions that will register to a Scorpio man. Again, this is because he likes to analyze things. He will totally notice and see if you are doing this to him.

Compliment how he explains things

Again, your Scorpio man is the type to analyze and look at what is beneath the surface. He likes to think things through, and a lot of times, when he communicates these thoughts, this information is not well received. This only shows how a Scorpio man thinks differently from everyone.

For example, he might say something that is a little offensive to someone, but to him, he is just telling the truth. He does not mean to be rude. And so, you can take advantage of this and let him know that you like how he explains things. He is going to feel seen and that you get him.

Send texts with double meanings

The best way to flirt with a Scorpio man is to get into his head and make him think things through. What you can do here is send him text messages that will definitely get him to think.

If you still have not noticed, your Scorpio man likes things that are mysterious and a little darker. This makes him the most mysterious man in the Zodiac.

Your Scorpio man loves to find the pattern of things and understand why something is happening. He is intrigued with things that have double and hidden meanings. You can definitely take advantage of this, and text him things that do just that.

One thing that you can do is post an Instagram story of a song that reminds you of him without saying anything. He is definitely going to stop and analyze whether you are posting about him or not.

Give your full attention

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Scorpio Man

When you are talking to your Scorpio man, make sure that you let him feel that you are giving him your full attention. He is a little intense and when he communicates, he really wants to feel that you are connecting with him and that you are really interested in what he is talking about.

If he is talking about a delicate subject, make sure that you are paying attention.

To a Scorpio man, him sharing his secrets to somebody is a precious moment and a privilege to that person. You can make him feel that by doing eye contact and not looking around at what is going on. You need to let him feel that this connection is just between you and him.

Compliment the way he asks questions

Again, your Scorpio man loves questions that are deep and intense, and you will not be exempted from his questioning. Let him know that you appreciate the way he asks you questions. These questions are interesting and indirect.

If he is curious about how many siblings you have, he will not directly ask you that question. Instead, he is going to craft another question that is designed for you to give the same answer.

Be mysterious

You might have already noticed how your Scorpio man asks a lot of questions, and although he wants to know everything about you, do not lay all your cards on the table at once. Maintain your mysterious side, and do not go all out about getting him to know you.

You need to make sure that there is something more that needs to look forward to. You need to let him know that there are a lot of exciting things to know about you. The last thing you want to do is to bore him. So, you need to keep things mysterious and exciting.

 Stare at him

7 Effective Tips To Flirt With A Scorpio Man

Again, your Scorpio man is known for his stares as a way to flirt. You can do that back to him to flirt too! You just need to stare at him and let him wonder what you are staring at.

Let him know that he is the sexiest man in your eyes and that you absolutely want to know more about him.

Get more details about your Scorpio man!

Now that you can clearly identify the effective ways to flirt with your Scorpio man… You should now check out Anna Kovach’s book Scorpio Man Secrets.

She can give you an exact blueprint to win over your Scorpio man…

 Effective tips to flirt with a Scorpio man, final thoughts…

The effective tips to flirt with a Scorpio man are:

  • Ask him questions
  • Compliment how he explains things
  • Send texts with double meanings
  • Give your full attention
  • Compliment the way he asks questions
  • Be mysterious
  • Stare at him

Happy flirting!